If you like pina coladas…

I was tired of my lady
We’d been together too long
Like a worn-out recording
Of a favorite song
So while she lay there sleeping
I read the paper in bed
And in the personal columns
There was this letter I read…
Bob was just out of college and living near the city when he finally had the courage to answer one of [...]

How do I get my partner to …?

It’s a truism that one of the most asked questions on any sex forum is “How can I get my partner to…?” And while I’d venture to say that it’s one of the most asked questions on any forum, I’m going to deal strictly with sexuality.
It probably goes without saying that one needs to keep [...]

Kink-timacy

I get questions. You get answers.
People read my stuff on the various web boards, Usenet groups, and Yahoo groups, and because (I hope) they perceive me to be articulate and sensitive, they email me. These are usually people who tend to “lurk”, that is, read those groups without breaking their anonymity to post. They are [...]

Indiscrimination

Orgasm Denial and its cousin, Chastity Play, are kinks tangentially related to BDSM, although they are often practiced by folks who consider themselves to be “vanilla”. OD can be practiced as a simple “tease and deny” game, which makes it appealing to both men and women who either don’t or won’t look at the underlying [...]

Sometimes being a grown-up really sips through a straw

Years ago, before I had kids, I saw some cartoon in which the parents - upon discovering that their various children had sleepovers or were out for the evening - said “Okay, great, let’s do something we don’t get to do when they’re home!” In the last panel it shows them going to be early [...]

Yes, we have no bananas today

Unbelievably, I don’t have some sex-related observation to make today. In fact, I’m willing to wager that after my piercing heals that I’ll be a bit less obsessive about my wang and will actually be able to hold conversations with regular, normal people.
For those of you - those very, very, very few of you - [...]

*woot* - It works! - *woot*

Okay, here’s the sitch: The daughter is at a sleepover, so my wife and I get the house to ourselves. Cool, right? She tells me this at 6:15 pm, so I’m thinking in an hour we’ll be on our way out to dinner and home early for some well-earned playtime. Haven’t been in the mood [...]

TMI - More Healing

Okay, this sounds stupid, but today I used a urinal for the first time in a week. Yay, me!
Wimmins don’t realize the sheer amount of manhandling that we mens gotta do in order to relieve ourselves. I mean, sure, it looks easy, just stand up, unzip and let go, right? The problem is trying to [...]

A New Convert

Okay, I’ll admit that I was mistaken. I like boxers.
A long time ago I had tried some scratchy, bulky boxer shorts and I hated them Uh. They got tangled up in the legs of my jeans, they rubbed the wrong way, the seams scratched me, and I had to keep sticking my hands down my [...]

TMI - Healing

Damn, all day yesterday the pierced area was irritating me. Not hurting, just itchy and uncomfortable, and I just couldn’t get any position that felt okay.
Most guys tend to be comfortable with their penis hanging slightly to the left or right (I’m a lefty), and I kept reaching my had into my shorts to adjust [...]