Posted on October 31, 2007 by Tom Allen
Over on Maybemaimed, my friend maymay is ranting about the shallowness of some people who use Halloween as a mini-Mardi Gras.
Have at it, May. Me, I’m about to get all bitchyjones about something much bigger.
TV. That is, night-time adult dramas. More specifically, those night time adult dramas that fall all over themselves in trying to [...]
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Posted on October 26, 2007 by Tom Allen
I’m referring back to the post from a couple of weeks ago in which Dee from Sexywhispers threatened offered to interview me. Because she asked such very good questions, the kind to which I wanted to devote more than a couple of tossed-off sentences, I’ve decided to take them on individually. Here’s the second one.
2–Where [...]
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Posted on October 25, 2007 by Tom Allen
Nothing as sexy or exciting as last week. Just my hairy, muscular arm at the keyboard. I’m sitting in the room that I’m finally reclaiming as my office. Ahhh…
Please ignore the pile of un-gotten-to mail at the top of the picture.
Edit: Added ‘puter porn.
Sexy second shot shows left side of keyboard with scroll wheel.
Oddly, people [...]
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Posted on October 19, 2007 by Tom Allen
Suzy tells me that I should have more pictures. Cat tells me that I should post some HNT shots.
What the hell.
I had a doctor’s appointment today, and of course everything was fine. Hell, I’ve been working out all summer and taking those wonder drugs for high blood pressure and cholesterol - if things weren’t fine, [...]
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Posted on October 16, 2007 by Tom Allen
Okay, I give up.
Back in the beginning of August 2006, I bit the proverbial bullet and had a 3/32″ thick, 5/8″ long metal lightning rod implanted in the sensitive area of my. . .
Oh hell, you can’t have read this blog for a week without hearing about my piercing, right? So let’s just get on [...]
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Posted on October 11, 2007 by Tom Allen
Okay, partly as a result of the anonymous comments about my piercing and buff pics, I’m about I’m about to go all bitchyjones on some of you people.
But first, I’m going to get esoteric for a moment.
Symbols are important to us because they help to transmit ideas in a language that’s easy to understand. Assuming, [...]
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Posted on October 9, 2007 by Tom Allen
I’m referring back to the post from a couple of weeks ago in which Dee from Sexywhispers threatened offered to interview me. Because she asked such very good questions, the kind to which I wanted to devote more than a couple of tossed-off sentences, I’ve decided to take them on individually. Here’s the first one.
1–What [...]
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Posted on October 5, 2007 by Tom Allen
Yeah, okay - I found my camera, but I’m going to be busy this weekend.
For your viewing enjoyment, and simply because you asked nicely, I posted something for you.
If you look in my TMI tab and scroll down, there is a link.
Don’t click it at work. Or when little kids or excitable folks are around, [...]
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Posted on October 2, 2007 by Tom Allen
Nope, this is not a meme. This is what you call an interview. Of sorts.
Diana of Whispers Media and the blog Sexywhispers tossed out a few questions for me that are a lot like the “7 random questions” kind of blog memes that periodically make the rounds, except that taken in a different context, [...]
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