Posted on January 18, 2008 by Tom Allen
Wow! I mean, I check the stats daily, so I know people are reading, but it’s so wonderful to have people tell me just how much they enjoy reading this blog. I’m touched by the generous comments from my last post. The positive strokes are very encouraging. Really.
And there’s nothing I enjoy more than to [...]
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Posted on January 15, 2008 by Tom Allen
I’m writing this because at the moment, I feel thankful.
As I write this entry I’m about to pass the 200,000th 201,000th hit on this, the WordPress version of The Edge of Vanilla. It has been 14 months since I’ve moved over here, and now this blog now generates between 750 and 1,000 hits [...]
Filed under: Blogging, Blogs, Communication, Marriage & Relationships, Sex Blogging, Sexuality & Relationships, coming out | Tagged: Blogging, Hits, Thanks | 16 Comments »
Posted on January 10, 2008 by Tom Allen
We’re having a warm spell in southern New England, and that means that I did not have to wear a flannel shirt to work.
Those are my legs sticking out from the bottom of my favorite denim shirt.
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Posted on January 9, 2008 by Tom Allen
I love the Oddly Enough news on the Reuters News service.
This one submitted without comment.*
What are you doing here? - man asks wife at brothel
WARSAW (Reuters) - A Polish man got the shock of his life when he visited a brothel and spotted his wife among the establishment’s employees. Polish tabloid Super Express said the [...]
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Posted on January 8, 2008 by Tom Allen
Blacksilk and Innocent Loverboy dogged a blogmeme from my LiveJournal.
I took Sage Vivant’s Erotic Personality Quiz and discovered I’m a Student!
What is your Erotic Personality? Find out now..
The Student doesn’t care a whit about sexual boundaries or conventions. New, unexplored, and even unusual sexual experiences motivate this erotic type. Learning is just as exciting [...]
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Posted on January 7, 2008 by Tom Allen
Those of us who remember the Hot Female Dominant Utopia - that section of spacetime in which men are men, and are ruled by women - it’s too late. That day was a decade and a half ago.
What, don’t you remember? It was in 1992.
Welcome to the world of The Feminists, a pulp novel published [...]
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Posted on January 3, 2008 by Tom Allen
Sooner or later, somebody is going to mention this, so I might as well be the one to comment on it.
An ER doc in the Northwest US wrote about his first experience with male chastity devices. As it happens, he had no idea that they even existed until a distraught man came into the ER [...]
Filed under: CB2000, CB3000, CB6000, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Chastity Devices, D/s & BDSM, Fetish, Fetish & Kink, chastity, male chastity | Tagged: ER visits, Medical, Rectal foreign bodies | 5 Comments »
Posted on January 3, 2008 by Tom Allen
Because, you know, they all secretly want to be submissive. Not to mention that they will respect men who do this.
I ran across this interesting tidbit this afternoon, and I knew my friends would all get something out of this.
We often associate dominant women with whips, chains and a pitiful man groveling at their feet [...]
Filed under: Communication, Culture, Manliness, Sexual & Sensual, relationships | Tagged: Dating, Dominance | 11 Comments »
Posted on January 2, 2008 by Tom Allen
. . . but sometimes non-denial is pretty freakin’ awesome, too. As can be “fucking so much that you’re wearing the skin off of your wabbly bits.”
Hey, I’m just sayin’.
Filed under: Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Chastity Devices, Erotic Musings, Hot Married Sex, Marriage & Relationships, Sexual & Sensual, Sexuality & Relationships, Vanilla Sex, orgasm control, orgasm denial, sexuality | 8 Comments »