About

A journal with a focus on discussions about intimacy and sexuality. This will not be a specifically kink-oriented blog; rather, I intend for this to become a journal about the intimacy and sexuality within relationships that border on the edge.

Sometime people enjoy some of the things that I’ve written. At least, I think that they enjoy them because certain articles get a lot of traffic. New visitors might want to read some of the more popular posts to get an idea of what goes on around here.

I also, when the mood strikes, write hot orgasm denial porn.

You can check out my obsessions with those stupid personality quizzes at my LiveJournal.

Before I switched over to WordPress, I started this at Blogger. Now all I keep there are some stories and some favorite old posts.

My wife, (Mrs. Edge) and I are (mostly) happily married. We have a (mostly) vanilla relationship, although we do venture off into interesting territories.

I still field questions about male chastity and orgasm denial, and relationships in general; anyone wishing to contact me privately can send an email to:

taomlin (at) gmail (dot) com

14 Responses to “About”

  1. Tom Allen, on January 1st, 1970 at 12:00 am Said:

    Elizabeth - Life is funny; I had wondered if you were going to feel miffed at the category, since it wasn’t in the full-blown BDSM or Femdom category.

    And get girlish all you want - I still get, er, boyish when I discover that somebody new has linked to me. ;-)

    BTW, your latest post should be required reading for newbies and veterans alike. There is a subtle but distinct difference between those who demand respect, and those who command respect. Sounds like you’ve got the right stuff.

  2. cah1470, on October 27th, 2006 at 4:18 pm Said:

    Welcome to the world of multiple blogs :)

  3. Tom Allen, on October 27th, 2006 at 4:27 pm Said:

    Heh heh - I’ve got a dozen email accounts, so why not add a few blogs to the mix?

  4. brianfox, on December 10th, 2006 at 2:05 pm Said:

    hey nice blog… I read most of your articles and I enjoy your writings
    Thanks

  5. ladychristine, on January 13th, 2007 at 12:47 pm Said:

    Thank you for inspiring me to start a blog, and being so open.

    I appreciate it and love your blog(s)!!

    Lady Christine

  6. nigel, on February 17th, 2007 at 10:58 pm Said:

    Hello Mr Allen,
    I know you do not like me using the “Mr” honorific but since Goddess Susan made you the Earl of Edgerton I think you deserve some politness and in Australia we do not like using heraldic titles.

    Please may I make a request ?
    Goddess Susan has dubbed me the Worlds First Faux Submissive (its true check it out on her page!) and I wondered if my blog address on your page could be moved into the Faux section? A little solidarity in the blogworld since I do not have a Mistress yet?

    most sincerely
    nigel
    mint tinted vanilla

  7. Elizabeth, on March 11th, 2007 at 11:06 pm Said:

    Tom -

    Thank you *so* much for adding my blog to your site. I saw it a few minutes ago and got positively girlish. (Not like me!)

    I’m extremely flattered to be categorized in “Beyond the Edge” as well. The most I would have hoped for before I actually started publishing was “A Bit of Vanilla”. I’ll do my best to live up to my category.

    Feeling happily edgy,
    E

  8. Tom Allen, on March 12th, 2007 at 9:52 am Said:

    Elizabeth - I’m *so* glad that you aren’t complaining about where I listed you. But if you ever feel like you belong in a different category, just say the word.

    And get as girlish as you like. I still get, er, boyish whenever I see a new link to my blog.

    Also, your latest post should be required reading for both newbies and veterans - and not just those in the BDSM world. There is a subtle, but distinct difference between those who demand respect, and those who command respect. Sounds like you know which is the better option.

    Edit: I switched your category to Fauxdomme after I saw your comment elsewhere wishing that you’d thought of it. I switched Bitchy Jones, too, because it seemed a shame not to have you near each other.

  9. Chris H., on October 22nd, 2007 at 5:37 pm Said:

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  10. Luka, on January 7th, 2008 at 3:17 pm Said:

    Hello!

    I just spotted my Boudoir in your New Additions!

    Ta very muchly, I am chuffed to bits.

    x

  11. Elizavetta, on January 22nd, 2008 at 2:32 pm Said:

    Hey there, thanks for the link! What a great site - witty blogging, some saucy smut, AND limericks? I had no idea such a place as this existed :)

    In all my internet travels, how could I not have found The Edge of Vanilla before this? Well, I actually did find (and sail past) the edge of vanilla a long time ago, if you know what I mean. Ah, but that’s another story altogether…

    Seriously, though - nice to meet you. I’m looking forward to more throughly wandering your archives. Consider yourself return-linked, darling.

  12. Elizavetta, on January 23rd, 2008 at 10:01 am Said:

    Oops. Sorry about the multiple commentgasm!

  13. Lotus, on March 17th, 2008 at 4:09 am Said:

    Hey there, I just wrote a post about cuckolding that was inspired by your blog, or rather, it’s an old hat rant of mine, but something you said got me to write it down. It’s a rare muse that inspires you to sit your ass down and get something done, so thank you. :)

    I’d like to know your thoughts on it.

  14. Mina, on April 19th, 2008 at 5:11 pm Said:

    Hi Tom, an interesting blog you have here. Thanks for the link, I have returned the favour.

    Best wishes
    Mina

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