A journal with a focus on discussions about intimacy and sexuality. This will not be a specifically kink-oriented blog; rather, I intend for this to become a journal about the intimacy and sexuality within relationships that border on the edge.
Sometime people enjoy some of the things that I’ve written. At least, I think that they enjoy them because certain articles get a lot of traffic. New visitors might want to read some of the more popular posts to get an idea of what goes on around here.
I also, when the mood strikes, write hot orgasm denial porn.
You can check out my obsessions with those stupid personality quizzes at my LiveJournal.
Before I switched over to WordPress, I started this at Blogger. Now all I keep there are some stories and some favorite old posts.
My wife, (Mrs. Edge) and I are (mostly) happily married. We have a (mostly) vanilla relationship, although we do venture off into interesting territories.
I still field questions about male chastity and orgasm denial, and relationships in general; anyone wishing to contact me privately can send an email to:
taomlin (at) gmail (dot) com
Elizabeth – Life is funny; I had wondered if you were going to feel miffed at the category, since it wasn’t in the full-blown BDSM or Femdom category.
And get girlish all you want – I still get, er, boyish when I discover that somebody new has linked to me.
BTW, your latest post should be required reading for newbies and veterans alike. There is a subtle but distinct difference between those who demand respect, and those who command respect. Sounds like you’ve got the right stuff.
Welcome to the world of multiple blogs:)
Heh heh – I’ve got a dozen email accounts, so why not add a few blogs to the mix?
hey nice blog… I read most of your articles and I enjoy your writings
Thanks
Thank you for inspiring me to start a blog, and being so open.
I appreciate it and love your blog(s)!!
Lady Christine
Hello Mr Allen,
I know you do not like me using the “Mr” honorific but since Goddess Susan made you the Earl of Edgerton I think you deserve some politness and in Australia we do not like using heraldic titles.
Please may I make a request ?
Goddess Susan has dubbed me the Worlds First Faux Submissive (its true check it out on her page!) and I wondered if my blog address on your page could be moved into the Faux section? A little solidarity in the blogworld since I do not have a Mistress yet?
most sincerely
nigel
mint tinted vanilla
Tom -
Thank you *so* much for adding my blog to your site. I saw it a few minutes ago and got positively girlish. (Not like me!)
I’m extremely flattered to be categorized in “Beyond the Edge” as well. The most I would have hoped for before I actually started publishing was “A Bit of Vanilla”. I’ll do my best to live up to my category.
Feeling happily edgy,
E
Elizabeth – I’m *so* glad that you aren’t complaining about where I listed you. But if you ever feel like you belong in a different category, just say the word.
And get as girlish as you like. I still get, er, boyish whenever I see a new link to my blog.
Also, your latest post should be required reading for both newbies and veterans – and not just those in the BDSM world. There is a subtle, but distinct difference between those who demand respect, and those who command respect. Sounds like you know which is the better option.
Edit: I switched your category to Fauxdomme after I saw your comment elsewhere wishing that you’d thought of it. I switched Bitchy Jones, too, because it seemed a shame not to have you near each other.
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Hello!
I just spotted my Boudoir in your New Additions!
Ta very muchly, I am chuffed to bits.
x
Hey there, thanks for the link! What a great site – witty blogging, some saucy smut, AND limericks? I had no idea such a place as this existed
In all my internet travels, how could I not have found The Edge of Vanilla before this? Well, I actually did find (and sail past) the edge of vanilla a long time ago, if you know what I mean. Ah, but that’s another story altogether…
Seriously, though – nice to meet you. I’m looking forward to more throughly wandering your archives. Consider yourself return-linked, darling.
Oops. Sorry about the multiple commentgasm!
Hey there, I just wrote a post about cuckolding that was inspired by your blog, or rather, it’s an old hat rant of mine, but something you said got me to write it down. It’s a rare muse that inspires you to sit your ass down and get something done, so thank you.
I’d like to know your thoughts on it.
Hi Tom, an interesting blog you have here. Thanks for the link, I have returned the favour.
Best wishes
Mina
Hello Tom,
I’m glad you are enjoying my blog (that’s an assumption on my part of course, you could be some sort of kinky blog-link-slut!).
I’m enjoying reading through yours here… the trouble with arriving late is ‘how far back do I go’? Really, I haven’t got all day… please send the readers digest version with the pornographic bits highlighted.
Thanks so much,
Ferns
Ms. Ferns –
Heh – let’s just get right to the good stuff, eh?
First, check the tabs at the top of the blog.
The Stories are some of my meager attempts at writing humorotica – erotic stories with a twist.
True Tales are some of the posts outlining the issues that I’ve had with erotic dominance and intimacy.
The Devices has some links to pictures of the various chastity devices that I’ve made, modified, and used.
TMI Stuff is exactly what you’d think. Do not click that link. It only contains links to nude and semi-nude pictures of me, sometimes wearing the aforementioned devices, sometimes not. Please, don’t bother.
Also, if you look in my sidebar, down on the left (at least, in this current design), there is a series of links called “What are you looking at?” Those are the most
popularread posts at any given time. It gives you an idea of what other people have been reading.So, TMI Stuff first then… (c’mon, you had to know that’s how it would work out, you tease!).
Thanks so much.
Ferns