Posted on July 16, 2008 by Tom Allen
S&M Barbie lashed by public
From The Sun (UK):
July 16, 2008
BARBIE’S new S&M look has whipped up a storm – with protesters dubbing it “filth”.
The doll’s image is transformed with kinky fishnets, motorcycle jacket, black gloves and boots.
Makers Mattel say Black Canary Barbie, out in September, is based on a DC comic superhero [...]
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Posted on June 4, 2008 by Tom Allen
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #135? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
Tantra is [...]
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Posted on February 13, 2008 by Tom Allen
Okay, here’s something that I rarely do - have a guest blogger here on The Edge of Vanilla.
Of course, I’ve never asked anyone before, either.
Anyway, long-time web surfers looking for femdom-related readings have no doubt stumbled across the Uniquely Rika web site, hosted by Ms. Rika, a non-pro dominatrix who runs an informational web forum [...]
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Posted on February 10, 2008 by Tom Allen
My wrists strained against the velcro “luv cuffs” and the thick, cotton terry on which I was lying was warm on my back as my wife knelt between my legs and pushed the well-lubed dildo against my ass. The pain was dull, but short-lived as the large bloopy tip eased past my sphincter muscle. I [...]
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Posted on December 5, 2007 by Tom Allen
Well, not exactly in the saddle. We’re not into pony play.
Yet.
I’m back into something else, though. Wanna see?
A little bit ago I wrote that the whole frenum piercing thing just didn’t work out well with regard to using it with the CB3000. The barbell often pinched my skin in the cage, especially when I [...]
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Posted on December 3, 2007 by Tom Allen
Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4, Part 5, Part 6
Week 18: My week long birthday fantasy seemed to have turned into a permanent arrangement.
One night she happened to notice me rubbing some cream on the exposed area of my cock, and dabbing a little under the ring. I had long stopped trying to [...]
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Posted on November 4, 2007 by Tom Allen
This post started out as a comment to the discussion on my last post, specifically the discussion between Toni and Maymay with regard to the stereotyping of corporate CEO types having submissive streaks. It started getting out of control as I put more thought into it, so I sort of gave it a promotion.
This discussion [...]
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Posted on October 31, 2007 by Tom Allen
Over on Maybemaimed, my friend maymay is ranting about the shallowness of some people who use Halloween as a mini-Mardi Gras.
Have at it, May. Me, I’m about to get all bitchyjones about something much bigger.
TV. That is, night-time adult dramas. More specifically, those night time adult dramas that fall all over themselves in trying to [...]
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Posted on October 11, 2007 by Tom Allen
Okay, partly as a result of the anonymous comments about my piercing and buff pics, I’m about I’m about to go all bitchyjones on some of you people.
But first, I’m going to get esoteric for a moment.
Symbols are important to us because they help to transmit ideas in a language that’s easy to understand. Assuming, [...]
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Posted on September 27, 2007 by Tom Allen
Er… let me rephrase that.
Hit & Run, the blog side of the libertarian publication Reason, just posted an interesting article on the Folsom Street Fair, or more specifically, the advertising for the FSF - the well-known San Francisco gay/kink/leatherfolk festival. Apparently some Christian groups have taken issue with one of the advertising posters in which [...]
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