Posted on June 5, 2009 by Tom Allen
So, what with all the reviews of chastity devices, reporting and commentary on various sex news, posting pics of hot older women, and the rare HNT, it seems like I’ve gone quite a while since posting an actual blog post about, you know, me.
Things have been busy in the Edge household, although in a mundane [...]
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Posted on December 16, 2008 by Tom Allen
I subscribe to a number of web boards on chastity devices and orgasm control. Yeah, there’s not much new happening in the chastity device world, but sometimes it’s interesting to get different perspectives and opinions on the topic. And quite often, somebody new comes along to ask questions or to look for support because, truthfully, [...]
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Posted on September 19, 2008 by Tom Allen
. . . that Tom Allen guy? You know, the guy who used to write about sexuality, orgasm denial, male chastity, and (judging from his search counter) Marina Sirtis in latex fetish garb? After a few tossed off posts about the latest sex news, some thoughts on my general health, and some cheesecake pics of [...]
Filed under: Blogthing, CB3000, Communication, Fitness, Health, Sexuality & Relationships, male chastity, orgasm denial | 14 Comments »
Posted on June 11, 2008 by Tom Allen
I stole this got the idea from Dev.
Actually, I love taking these tests, and I’ll take anything that tells me that I’m an awesome person.
Anyway, this is another one of those cool OKCupid tests. Go check it out.
What’s your sexual style?
Your Score: TYPE N
You scored: 91 imagination, 91 confidence, 45 dominance, [...]
Filed under: Blogthing, Communication, Humor, Musing & Amusing, Sexuality & Relationships, meme | 8 Comments »
Posted on May 29, 2008 by Tom Allen
Okay, so here’s the deal: I have a new friend, a cute 27 year old woman who has been emailing me and being generally pleasant and chatty. She’s a professional in the local entertainment media, and we chat – via email – about just how things are in life. She has wondered about how to [...]
Filed under: Communication, Disclosure, Resources & Discussion, Sexuality & Relationships, intimacy, relationships, sensuality, vanilla | Tagged: relationships | 16 Comments »
Posted on April 28, 2008 by Tom Allen
One day, when a seamstress was sewing while sitting close to a river, her thimble fell into the river. When she cried out, the Lord appeared and asked, “My dear child, why are you crying?”
The seamstress replied that her thimble had fallen into the water and that she needed it to help her husband in [...]
Filed under: Communication, Humor, Musing & Amusing, relationships | Tagged: Fables, Humor, Jokes, Parables | 9 Comments »
Posted on April 23, 2008 by Tom Allen
Submitted without comment – mainly because anything that I add would be superfluous.
From the web toon xkcd.
Filed under: Beyond the Edge, Blog Candy, Communication, Erotic Musings, Fetish & Kink, Humor, Interesting Oddities, Musing & Amusing, Tantra | Tagged: Kama Sutra, xkcd | 8 Comments »
Posted on March 25, 2008 by Tom Allen
No, no, wait – that’s six words. Six.
One of the great things about being me is that I’m always stumbling over fantastic or quirky or exotic or intelligent bloggers. Lately, I’ve been keeping an eye on Elizavetta, who in an effort to shake me off, tagged me with a meme.
Damn. It’s been a while since [...]
Filed under: Blogging, Blogroll, Blogthing, Communication, Musing & Amusing, meme | Tagged: blogmeme, Six degrees, Six words | 30 Comments »
Posted on March 7, 2008 by Tom Allen
Okay, fasten your seat belts, because I feel a rant coming on.
The Edge of Vanilla gets a lot of hits from people searching on male chastity and orgasm denial. Those kinks overlap with others, among which are: BDSM, transvestism, tease & denial, female domination, D/s, and cuckolding.
Personally, I don’t understand the attraction of wanting to [...]
Filed under: CB2000, CB3000, CB6000, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Communication, Female Led Relationships, Marriage & Relationships, Sexuality & Relationships, chastity, intimacy, kink, male chastity, orgasm denial, relationships | Tagged: Consent, Cuckolding, Manipulation | 19 Comments »
Posted on March 7, 2008 by Tom Allen
I don’t quite know what to make of this news item from Australia. Maybe our friends from Down Under can weigh in?
From an article in The Herald Sun (Aus)
Short sex is best say experts
March 05, 2008 12:07pm
THE best sex should last just seven to 13 minutes, and even three-minute sex is “adequate”, sex [...]
Filed under: Communication, Culture, Interesting Oddities, Marriage & Relationships, News, Sexuality & Relationships, sexuality | Tagged: News Articles, Sex Advice, Sex news | 19 Comments »
