Posted on June 11, 2008 by Tom Allen
I stole this got the idea from Dev.
Actually, I love taking these tests, and I’ll take anything that tells me that I’m an awesome person.
Anyway, this is another one of those cool OKCupid tests. Go check it out.
What’s your sexual style?
Your Score: TYPE N
You scored: 91 imagination, 91 confidence, 45 dominance, [...]
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Posted on May 29, 2008 by Tom Allen
Okay, so here’s the deal: I have a new friend, a cute 27 year old woman who has been emailing me and being generally pleasant and chatty. She’s a professional in the local entertainment media, and we chat - via email - about just how things are in life. She has wondered about how to [...]
Filed under: Communication, Disclosure, Resources & Discussion, Sexuality & Relationships, intimacy, relationships, sensuality, vanilla | Tagged: relationships | 16 Comments »
Posted on April 28, 2008 by Tom Allen
One day, when a seamstress was sewing while sitting close to a river, her thimble fell into the river. When she cried out, the Lord appeared and asked, “My dear child, why are you crying?”
The seamstress replied that her thimble had fallen into the water and that she needed it to help her husband in [...]
Filed under: Communication, Humor, Musing & Amusing, relationships | Tagged: Fables, Humor, Jokes, Parables | 9 Comments »
Posted on April 23, 2008 by Tom Allen
Submitted without comment - mainly because anything that I add would be superfluous.
From the web toon xkcd.
Filed under: Beyond the Edge, Blog Candy, Communication, Erotic Musings, Fetish & Kink, Humor, Interesting Oddities, Musing & Amusing, Tantra | Tagged: Kama Sutra, xkcd | 8 Comments »
Posted on March 25, 2008 by Tom Allen
No, no, wait - that’s six words. Six.
One of the great things about being me is that I’m always stumbling over fantastic or quirky or exotic or intelligent bloggers. Lately, I’ve been keeping an eye on Elizavetta, who in an effort to shake me off, tagged me with a meme.
Damn. It’s been a while since [...]
Filed under: Blogging, Blogroll, Blogthing, Communication, Musing & Amusing, meme | Tagged: blogmeme, Six degrees, Six words | 30 Comments »
Posted on March 7, 2008 by Tom Allen
Okay, fasten your seat belts, because I feel a rant coming on.
The Edge of Vanilla gets a lot of hits from people searching on male chastity and orgasm denial. Those kinks overlap with others, among which are: BDSM, transvestism, tease & denial, female domination, D/s, and cuckolding.
Personally, I don’t understand the attraction of wanting to [...]
Filed under: CB2000, CB3000, CB6000, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Communication, Female Led Relationships, Marriage & Relationships, Sexuality & Relationships, chastity, intimacy, kink, male chastity, orgasm denial, relationships | Tagged: Cuckolding, Consent, Manipulation | 18 Comments »
Posted on March 7, 2008 by Tom Allen
I don’t quite know what to make of this news item from Australia. Maybe our friends from Down Under can weigh in?
From an article in The Herald Sun (Aus)
Short sex is best say experts
March 05, 2008 12:07pm
THE best sex should last just seven to 13 minutes, and even three-minute sex is “adequate”, sex [...]
Filed under: Communication, Culture, Interesting Oddities, Marriage & Relationships, News, Sexuality & Relationships, sexuality | Tagged: News Articles, Sex news, Sex Advice | 19 Comments »
Posted on February 10, 2008 by Tom Allen
My wrists strained against the velcro “luv cuffs” and the thick, cotton terry on which I was lying was warm on my back as my wife knelt between my legs and pushed the well-lubed dildo against my ass. The pain was dull, but short-lived as the large bloopy tip eased past my sphincter muscle. I [...]
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Posted on January 15, 2008 by Tom Allen
I’m writing this because at the moment, I feel thankful.
As I write this entry I’m about to pass the 200,000th 201,000th hit on this, the WordPress version of The Edge of Vanilla. It has been 14 months since I’ve moved over here, and now this blog now generates between 750 and 1,000 hits [...]
Filed under: Blogging, Blogs, Communication, Marriage & Relationships, Sex Blogging, Sexuality & Relationships, coming out | Tagged: Blogging, Hits, Thanks | 16 Comments »
Posted on January 3, 2008 by Tom Allen
Because, you know, they all secretly want to be submissive. Not to mention that they will respect men who do this.
I ran across this interesting tidbit this afternoon, and I knew my friends would all get something out of this.
We often associate dominant women with whips, chains and a pitiful man groveling at their feet [...]
Filed under: Communication, Culture, Manliness, Sexual & Sensual, relationships | Tagged: Dating, Dominance | 11 Comments »
