Posted on May 29, 2008 by Tom Allen
Okay, so here’s the deal: I have a new friend, a cute 27 year old woman who has been emailing me and being generally pleasant and chatty. She’s a professional in the local entertainment media, and we chat - via email - about just how things are in life. She has wondered about how to [...]
Filed under: Communication, Disclosure, Resources & Discussion, Sexuality & Relationships, intimacy, relationships, sensuality, vanilla | Tagged: relationships | 16 Comments »
Posted on December 14, 2007 by Tom Allen
There’s a certain irony in that for the last year and a half that I’ve been blogging, the search engine hits on my blog that query for “chastity” or “orgasm denial” far outnumber the others by a wide margin, despite the fact that for the last year and a half I’ve hardly worn the chastity [...]
Filed under: CB3000, CB6000, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Chastity Devices, Communication, Disclosure, Fetish, Fetish & Kink, chastity, male chastity, orgasm control, orgasm denial, piercing, relationships | Tagged: CB-3000, chastity, Chastity Blog, Long-term Denial, male chastity, orgasm denial | 11 Comments »
Posted on December 5, 2007 by Tom Allen
Well, not exactly in the saddle. We’re not into pony play.
Yet.
I’m back into something else, though. Wanna see?
A little bit ago I wrote that the whole frenum piercing thing just didn’t work out well with regard to using it with the CB3000. The barbell often pinched my skin in the cage, especially when I [...]
Filed under: BDSM, CB3000, CB6000, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Chastity Devices, Disclosure, Fetish, Fetish & Kink, Hot Married Sex, Strap-on, True Tales, chastity, kink, male chastity, orgasm control, orgasm denial, piercing | Tagged: CB3000, CB6000, chastity, Locked Up, orgasm denial | 28 Comments »
Posted on October 26, 2007 by Tom Allen
I’m referring back to the post from a couple of weeks ago in which Dee from Sexywhispers threatened offered to interview me. Because she asked such very good questions, the kind to which I wanted to devote more than a couple of tossed-off sentences, I’ve decided to take them on individually. Here’s the second one.
2–Where [...]
Filed under: Blogging, Blogthing, Communication, Disclosure, Fetish & Kink, Marriage & Relationships, Relationship, Sexuality & Relationships, intimacy, meme, personality, relationships | 6 Comments »
Posted on October 19, 2007 by Tom Allen
Suzy tells me that I should have more pictures. Cat tells me that I should post some HNT shots.
What the hell.
I had a doctor’s appointment today, and of course everything was fine. Hell, I’ve been working out all summer and taking those wonder drugs for high blood pressure and cholesterol - if things weren’t fine, [...]
Filed under: Appearance, Body Image, Disclosure, Exercise, HNT, Health, Manliness, Nudity | 11 Comments »
Posted on October 11, 2007 by Tom Allen
Okay, partly as a result of the anonymous comments about my piercing and buff pics, I’m about I’m about to go all bitchyjones on some of you people.
But first, I’m going to get esoteric for a moment.
Symbols are important to us because they help to transmit ideas in a language that’s easy to understand. Assuming, [...]
Filed under: Appearance, BDSM, Body Image, CB3000, D/s, Disclosure, Manliness, Submission, body mod, chastity, male chastity, sexuality | 20 Comments »
Posted on October 9, 2007 by Tom Allen
I’m referring back to the post from a couple of weeks ago in which Dee from Sexywhispers threatened offered to interview me. Because she asked such very good questions, the kind to which I wanted to devote more than a couple of tossed-off sentences, I’ve decided to take them on individually. Here’s the first one.
1–What [...]
Filed under: Blogging, Blogthing, CB3000, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, D/s & BDSM, Disclosure, Fetish & Kink, chastity, kink, male chastity, meme, orgasm control, orgasm denial, sexuality | 13 Comments »
Posted on October 5, 2007 by Tom Allen
Yeah, okay - I found my camera, but I’m going to be busy this weekend.
For your viewing enjoyment, and simply because you asked nicely, I posted something for you.
If you look in my TMI tab and scroll down, there is a link.
Don’t click it at work. Or when little kids or excitable folks are around, [...]
Filed under: Aging, Appearance, Beyond the Edge, Disclosure, Exercise, Fetish & Kink, body mod, piercing | 9 Comments »
Posted on June 30, 2007 by Tom Allen
… at men who wear glasses.
For cryin’ out loud in a bucket - could I possibly be acting more vain?
The advancing years, long hours working with small machined parts, long hours of staring at computer screens, and general decrepitude, and apparently everything else except masturbation have conspired against my eyesight, which, until recently, used [...]
Filed under: Aging, Disclosure, Health, Humor, Medical, body mod | 21 Comments »
Posted on June 14, 2007 by Tom Allen
Okay, look - I’m a guy, so in theory I should understand why this happens. But I really don’t have a good explanation. It’s just that some of us do things that, well, seem perfectly logical at first, only to discover later that it was obviously stupid; after which women look at us and say [...]
Filed under: CB3000, Communication, Disclosure, chastity, kink, male chastity, orgasm control, orgasm denial | 25 Comments »
