Posted on June 4, 2008 by Tom Allen
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #135? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
Tantra is [...]
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Posted on March 19, 2008 by Tom Allen
Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4, Part 5, Part 6, Part 7
Week 31: Something changed for the both of us.
For the next few weeks after the night that she tied me down, her libido seemed to increase. After having gotten accustomed to the once a week oral or strap-on sessions, it was a [...]
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Posted on February 22, 2008 by Tom Allen
“Of course I want dessert. What, are you in a hurry or something?”
We were at one of those upscale Italian restaurants. You know the kind: they are usually named after an island in the Mediterranean, the waiters are named after one of the Teenage Mutant Ninja Terrapins, and where you can’t get spaghetti; instead you [...]
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Posted on February 13, 2008 by Tom Allen
Okay, here’s something that I rarely do - have a guest blogger here on The Edge of Vanilla.
Of course, I’ve never asked anyone before, either.
Anyway, long-time web surfers looking for femdom-related readings have no doubt stumbled across the Uniquely Rika web site, hosted by Ms. Rika, a non-pro dominatrix who runs an informational web forum [...]
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Posted on December 3, 2007 by Tom Allen
Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4, Part 5, Part 6
Week 18: My week long birthday fantasy seemed to have turned into a permanent arrangement.
One night she happened to notice me rubbing some cream on the exposed area of my cock, and dabbing a little under the ring. I had long stopped trying to [...]
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Posted on November 9, 2007 by Tom Allen
Well, here’s something interesting: I received an email today, which read, in part:
I was wondering if I could ask you a couple questions about chastity belts. I am doing a paper for a psychology class on different aspects of chastity belts. If you are interested in helping me out, I would like [...]
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Posted on November 4, 2007 by Tom Allen
This post started out as a comment to the discussion on my last post, specifically the discussion between Toni and Maymay with regard to the stereotyping of corporate CEO types having submissive streaks. It started getting out of control as I put more thought into it, so I sort of gave it a promotion.
This discussion [...]
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Posted on October 31, 2007 by Tom Allen
Over on Maybemaimed, my friend maymay is ranting about the shallowness of some people who use Halloween as a mini-Mardi Gras.
Have at it, May. Me, I’m about to get all bitchyjones about something much bigger.
TV. That is, night-time adult dramas. More specifically, those night time adult dramas that fall all over themselves in trying to [...]
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Posted on October 11, 2007 by Tom Allen
Okay, partly as a result of the anonymous comments about my piercing and buff pics, I’m about I’m about to go all bitchyjones on some of you people.
But first, I’m going to get esoteric for a moment.
Symbols are important to us because they help to transmit ideas in a language that’s easy to understand. Assuming, [...]
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Posted on September 14, 2007 by Tom Allen
… or maybe it’s just something in the water?
Even though I coined the term “fauxdomination” as a joke, the concept itself is serious; women around the blogosphere (and can’t we find a less kludgier word that that, please?) are becoming more conscious of breaking free of the traditional (read: stereotypical) models of women in tight, [...]
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