Posted on June 20, 2008 by Tom Allen
If you live in the US, you have some great resources for buying adult products. I’m not talking about those crappy jelly things that they have at the local “Erotique Boutique” stores that are always on the outskirts of every city, usually in the manufacturing or meatpacking districts. No, I’m talking about the good toys [...]
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Posted on June 4, 2008 by Tom Allen
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #135? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
Tantra is [...]
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Posted on April 19, 2008 by Tom Allen
I was snagged tagged by Kimba.
This is Isabella’s Sex Meme. Anyone is welcome to steal it but you must post this rules blurb at the beginning of the meme: 1. You must include this link to Sex Talk: Sex Advice for Men 2. You must answer every question! If you don’t have a good answer, [...]
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Posted on April 7, 2008 by Tom Allen
Go ahead, guess.
Oh hell, this should have been a no-brainer for 90% of the regular visitors here. Yes, I’m wearing a new CB-6000. I’ve been wearing it off and on - mainly on - since Friday morning. I’ve needed to make quite a few adjustments in order to find a balance between comfort and security.
The [...]
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Posted on February 13, 2008 by Tom Allen
Okay, here’s something that I rarely do - have a guest blogger here on The Edge of Vanilla.
Of course, I’ve never asked anyone before, either.
Anyway, long-time web surfers looking for femdom-related readings have no doubt stumbled across the Uniquely Rika web site, hosted by Ms. Rika, a non-pro dominatrix who runs an informational web forum [...]
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Posted on February 10, 2008 by Tom Allen
My wrists strained against the velcro “luv cuffs” and the thick, cotton terry on which I was lying was warm on my back as my wife knelt between my legs and pushed the well-lubed dildo against my ass. The pain was dull, but short-lived as the large bloopy tip eased past my sphincter muscle. I [...]
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Posted on January 3, 2008 by Tom Allen
Sooner or later, somebody is going to mention this, so I might as well be the one to comment on it.
An ER doc in the Northwest US wrote about his first experience with male chastity devices. As it happens, he had no idea that they even existed until a distraught man came into the ER [...]
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Posted on December 14, 2007 by Tom Allen
There’s a certain irony in that for the last year and a half that I’ve been blogging, the search engine hits on my blog that query for “chastity” or “orgasm denial” far outnumber the others by a wide margin, despite the fact that for the last year and a half I’ve hardly worn the chastity [...]
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Posted on December 5, 2007 by Tom Allen
Well, not exactly in the saddle. We’re not into pony play.
Yet.
I’m back into something else, though. Wanna see?
A little bit ago I wrote that the whole frenum piercing thing just didn’t work out well with regard to using it with the CB3000. The barbell often pinched my skin in the cage, especially when I [...]
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Posted on November 9, 2007 by Tom Allen
Well, here’s something interesting: I received an email today, which read, in part:
I was wondering if I could ask you a couple questions about chastity belts. I am doing a paper for a psychology class on different aspects of chastity belts. If you are interested in helping me out, I would like [...]
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