Posted on May 23, 2008 by Tom Allen
“So, how many days has it been, now?”
I brushed away a fine hair that had been tickling my nose and thought for a moment. “Fifty three days so far,” I answered. She had one leg over my shoulder, and I planted several small kisses along her warm thigh, my other hand idly caressing her belly [...]
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Posted on April 7, 2008 by Tom Allen
Go ahead, guess.
Oh hell, this should have been a no-brainer for 90% of the regular visitors here. Yes, I’m wearing a new CB-6000. I’ve been wearing it off and on - mainly on - since Friday morning. I’ve needed to make quite a few adjustments in order to find a balance between comfort and security.
The [...]
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Posted on February 13, 2008 by Tom Allen
Okay, here’s something that I rarely do - have a guest blogger here on The Edge of Vanilla.
Of course, I’ve never asked anyone before, either.
Anyway, long-time web surfers looking for femdom-related readings have no doubt stumbled across the Uniquely Rika web site, hosted by Ms. Rika, a non-pro dominatrix who runs an informational web forum [...]
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Posted on January 18, 2008 by Tom Allen
Wow! I mean, I check the stats daily, so I know people are reading, but it’s so wonderful to have people tell me just how much they enjoy reading this blog. I’m touched by the generous comments from my last post. The positive strokes are very encouraging. Really.
And there’s nothing I enjoy more than to [...]
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Posted on January 3, 2008 by Tom Allen
Because, you know, they all secretly want to be submissive. Not to mention that they will respect men who do this.
I ran across this interesting tidbit this afternoon, and I knew my friends would all get something out of this.
We often associate dominant women with whips, chains and a pitiful man groveling at their feet [...]
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Posted on January 2, 2008 by Tom Allen
. . . but sometimes non-denial is pretty freakin’ awesome, too. As can be “fucking so much that you’re wearing the skin off of your wabbly bits.”
Hey, I’m just sayin’.
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Posted on September 14, 2007 by Tom Allen
… or maybe it’s just something in the water?
Even though I coined the term “fauxdomination” as a joke, the concept itself is serious; women around the blogosphere (and can’t we find a less kludgier word that that, please?) are becoming more conscious of breaking free of the traditional (read: stereotypical) models of women in tight, [...]
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Posted on August 23, 2007 by Tom Allen
As if I need one more thing to feed the Shatner-esque ego monster that I have developed over the last year or so, along comes Maymay who gets this idea that people might actually enjoy listening to me ramble on about orgasm denial, chastity, vanilla sex, relationships, and hot chastity porn. The result is an [...]
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Posted on August 2, 2007 by Tom Allen
This is for Eileen, who asked the question, “Have you found that you’re able to come while wearing the CB3000?”
I posted this on the CB-3000 Yahoo group back in December of 2003.
A couple of weeks ago, I posted a note in a few of the chastity-oriented groups that after almost three weeks of 24/7 lock-up [...]
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Posted on July 23, 2007 by Tom Allen
