Posted on June 4, 2008 by Tom Allen
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #135? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
Tantra is [...]
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Posted on March 7, 2008 by Tom Allen
I don’t quite know what to make of this news item from Australia. Maybe our friends from Down Under can weigh in?
From an article in The Herald Sun (Aus)
Short sex is best say experts
March 05, 2008 12:07pm
THE best sex should last just seven to 13 minutes, and even three-minute sex is “adequate”, sex [...]
Filed under: Communication, Culture, Interesting Oddities, Marriage & Relationships, News, Sexuality & Relationships, sexuality | Tagged: News Articles, Sex news, Sex Advice | 19 Comments »
Posted on February 13, 2008 by Tom Allen
Okay, here’s something that I rarely do - have a guest blogger here on The Edge of Vanilla.
Of course, I’ve never asked anyone before, either.
Anyway, long-time web surfers looking for femdom-related readings have no doubt stumbled across the Uniquely Rika web site, hosted by Ms. Rika, a non-pro dominatrix who runs an informational web forum [...]
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Posted on January 2, 2008 by Tom Allen
. . . but sometimes non-denial is pretty freakin’ awesome, too. As can be “fucking so much that you’re wearing the skin off of your wabbly bits.”
Hey, I’m just sayin’.
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Posted on November 4, 2007 by Tom Allen
This post started out as a comment to the discussion on my last post, specifically the discussion between Toni and Maymay with regard to the stereotyping of corporate CEO types having submissive streaks. It started getting out of control as I put more thought into it, so I sort of gave it a promotion.
This discussion [...]
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Posted on October 11, 2007 by Tom Allen
Okay, partly as a result of the anonymous comments about my piercing and buff pics, I’m about I’m about to go all bitchyjones on some of you people.
But first, I’m going to get esoteric for a moment.
Symbols are important to us because they help to transmit ideas in a language that’s easy to understand. Assuming, [...]
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Posted on October 9, 2007 by Tom Allen
I’m referring back to the post from a couple of weeks ago in which Dee from Sexywhispers threatened offered to interview me. Because she asked such very good questions, the kind to which I wanted to devote more than a couple of tossed-off sentences, I’ve decided to take them on individually. Here’s the first one.
1–What [...]
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Posted on September 4, 2007 by Tom Allen
And coming on the heels of a recent story about what women look for in manly attractiveness comes this Associated Press hot breaking science news story:
Earth-Shattering Study: Men Like Good-Looking Women
Tuesday, September 04, 2007
WASHINGTON — Science is confirming what most women know: When given the choice for a mate, men go for [...]
Filed under: Appearance, Body Image, Dating, Health, Humor, Medical, News, sexuality | 6 Comments »
Posted on June 25, 2007 by Tom Allen
Okay, this little comment in a recent article from Joe Flirt caught my eye:
When you are used to relieving your… internal pressure… a couple of times a day as I am, it becomes a real problem when you are in a one room “suite.”
Now, I’ve been a long-time subscriber to various chastity and orgasm denial [...]
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Posted on May 14, 2007 by Tom Allen
I’ve hit a blogging milestone of sorts.
Over the last week I’ve watched as first my original Blogger version of “The Edge of Vanilla” rolled past the 25,000 hits mark. I started that blog back in August, when I decided that I wanted to branch out from my Live Journal. Although I no longer use Blogger [...]
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