Rika does Vanilla!

Okay, here’s something that I rarely do - have a guest blogger here on The Edge of Vanilla.
Of course, I’ve never asked anyone before, either.
Anyway, long-time web surfers looking for femdom-related readings have no doubt stumbled across the Uniquely Rika web site, hosted by Ms. Rika, a non-pro dominatrix who runs an informational web forum [...]

Hair today…

Okay, partly as a result of the anonymous comments about my piercing and buff pics, I’m about I’m about to go all bitchyjones on some of you people.
But first, I’m going to get esoteric for a moment.
Symbols are important to us because they help to transmit ideas in a language that’s easy to understand. Assuming, [...]

And revolution in the air…

… or maybe it’s just something in the water?
Even though I coined the term “fauxdomination” as a joke, the concept itself is serious; women around the blogosphere (and can’t we find a less kludgier word that that, please?) are becoming more conscious of breaking free of the traditional (read: stereotypical) models of women in tight, [...]

Stalag 69

Here’s something that might interest a certain book expert:
From the New York Times article:
Israel’s Unexpected Spinoff From a Holocaust Trial
I initially ran across this today on the Reason Magazine blog, and there are links to several other related articles. More interestingly, some videos about the books can be found here.
This brings to mind some [...]

I S.U.Q.

Bitchy Jones being, well, Bitchy Jones, is ranting about something (yes, really) on which she’s touched on in the past: Submissive men who are too worried about being properly subby to be sexy. She touches briefly on a quiz that she ran into on Ms Rika’s website, which outlines some of stereotyped ways for men [...]

Hear me, hear me!

As if I need one more thing to feed the Shatner-esque ego monster that I have developed over the last year or so, along comes Maymay who gets this idea that people might actually enjoy listening to me ramble on about orgasm denial, chastity, vanilla sex, relationships, and hot chastity porn. The result is an [...]

Not the Usual Anniversary Present - 5

Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4
Week 11: This was a decidedly bad turn of events.
During the rest of the week, she made sure that I did something for her every single night. I was sure it was her way of reminding me that she had to do without, although I kept reminding [...]

Lair of the Pathetic Worm

If any of my 42 readers have not dropped by the Bitchy Jones’ Diary blog, stop your one-handed typing and click over to there right now. I mean it - I know you’re here to wank to my hot chastity porn, but this is important. I want you - especially you married men who [...]

Fetish Lore

No, this is not about the history of fetishes. I’m just taking a moment to mention that the cottage industry of kink that is otherwise known as Richard - the pansexual polyfetishist - apparently does not had enough to do with the dozen or so blogs and feed aggregates that he manages; so he has [...]

Fauxdommes & Fauxmissives

Sometimes it’s simply too difficult to keep one’s mind in the game. All those rules and regulations start running together, and if you’re not focused you’ll wake up one morning and realize that you’re confused, and that some Dick will tell you that you’re not as real as you once thought you were. Then [...]