Okay, I admit to being a bit of a link whore – almost as much as I’m a comment whore. But for the most part, I’m less concerned with others linking to me as I am with discovering new and different blogs to read. A quick perusal of my blogroll shows that I’m adding blogs that fit into several categories. While most of them deal with “alternative sexuality, ” and more specifically in the D/s genre, I also read a lot of others in what I call “Marrige & Relationships.” While most of them seem to be blogs that detail problems in relationships, once in a while I come across blogs that showcase some of the more positive aspects. To that end, I’ve linked “Over 40 Married Sex” (how could you not love a title like that?) and “Crash’s Sex Story Spot,” both of which being examples of happy, married sexuality.
Since I tend to think of this blog as an exploration of sexual and emotional intimacy, it was surprisng to see someone showcase me as a “fetishist.” Kimba has a funny blog… or rather, she tells funny stories about dating and her other relationships. Apparently she linked here to give her own readers something interesting to read (and for many of us, this is praise indeed!). But this quote from her cracks me up:
I have just seen my blog, blogrolled on a fetishist site.. I can’t tell you how hysterical and intimidated I am at the same time..
So now I’m wondering – when the hell did I become a “fetishist“? Was it when I bought those knee-high black leather boots for my wife? Was it when I insisted on having sex wearing a corset? Was it when I discovered that yak butter makes a great personal lubricant? Or was it when I had my manacles monogrammed? Or maybe it was when I asked Santa to bring me a vibrating, inflatable butt plug for Christmas…