Ceci n’est pas une meme

Nope, this is not a meme. This is what you call an interview. Of sorts. magrittepipe.jpg

Diana of Whispers Media and the blog Sexywhispers tossed out a few questions for me that are a lot like the “7 random questions” kind of blog memes that periodically make the rounds, except that taken in a different context, they are just the kind of questions that can easily turn from two sentence answers into complete posts. And for lack of anything better to do with my time (and yours) that’s exactly what I’m planning to do.

Later.

However, I’m going to post the questions here, not for meming purposes, but just to allow whoever is interested to cogitate on their own possible answers to them.

Question:

1–What are your favorite fetishes?

2–Where do most men go wrong with women? And, where do must women miss the mark with men?

3–Explain a time when you hurt a woman and regretted it. (Please don’t say you have regretted it every time!)

4–What has changed in your sexual perception over the last 10 years? 20 years?

5–What caused the biggest sexual change of attitude in your life?

Bonus:

What is the one thing that about a woman that lights your fire instantly?

These are some good questions, and I really need a little time in order to give them the attention that they deserve.

About Tom Allen

The Grey Geezer Dauntless defender of, um, something that needed dauntless defending. Dammit, I can't read this script without my glasses. Hey, you kids, get off my damn lawn!
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6 Responses to Ceci n’est pas une meme

  1. sexywhispers says:

    Tom,

    Thank you for your thought. I always hope that these questions make someone stop and think thats why they are different and taylored to each person who steps up to the bar. Plus, I want to draw out what your experiences are so others can say….”Hey, I did that” and not feel so alone in the world. Not only will we know more about you by the end, but you should know more about yourself.~~Dee (Diana)

  2. Fusion says:

    *raises eyebrow*

    Wow, those are some questions there, Tom. No way I could answer them myself, I’m too much of a newbie ;), but I look forward to reading your answers.

  3. lafille says:

    Can’t wait to see your answer to #2. 🙂

  4. Susan's pet says:

    Call me a fool, but here I go …

    1. Fetish? Me, Are you kidding?
    2. Where most men go wrong is thinking through their penis. Where women miss the mark is … ah … maybe I don’t want to get into this one.
    3. The only woman whom I hurt was my wife. It was when I reneged on my committment. It was temporary, foolish, did it only once, and tought me to never do it again.
    4. My change of sexual perception came when I realized that if I approach sex from her point of view we both get more out of it. I am still working on that.
    5. This goes with number 4. One day I decided to never take. I carry this to a fault, and my wife sometimes points it out.
    About the bonus question: anything about a woman can set me off. Sure, I have some favorite parts, but it would take too long to list here.

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