My friend Disheveled Domina has a project she’s working on. She is at odds with the current paradigm that (what people commonly call) submissive men are devalued within the BDSM world. She happens to like men who identify as submissive, and wants to explore, and perhaps change the perceptions and attitudes. Mad propz to you, Dish.
She’s a new blogger, so go and show her some love.
Personally, I sort-of agree with her premise. I say “sort of” because I’m so disgusted with the paradigm that I refuse to even use the language anymore because it makes so little sense. In my opinion, it’s all based on a mixture of the 1960s “old guard” gay leather community, the anally-retentive Gorean crowd, and with a little bit of D&D thrown in; it’s no wonder the public scene spaces are filled with people who are more appearance-sensitive than reality TV stars.
I’m not going to steal her thunder by writing anymore on this just yet. She’s bright, educated, and manages to think before she writes. Put her on your blogroll or your regular reading list.
It’s been a long week. I’m hot, tired, and it’s still a few hours before I can leave. And then I have to mow the lawn, cook dinner, and do other household things before I’ll be able to relax for a while. I need something to help keep my interest level up.
I know! Here’s a picture of fetish hottie London Andrews.
Sorry, but she’s so damn hot… Rawr!