So, I’m skimming my blogroll, and I see an interesting post over on Kink in Exile in which she asks:
I’m reading some of the blogs linked off Keyheld, “an aggregate for blogs in which male chastity and orgasm denial are the main focus.” It seems like a lot of these male bloggers are married, many with families, most with otherwise uncomplicated-by-the-risque lives. My question is, how does orgasm control get into such unexpected and otherwise normal-seeming unions?
Having been immersed in the chastity culture for so long, it’s sometimes surprising for me to hear other kinksters ask about it. Even more surprising is that KiE puts the cart before the horse in her assumption:
I’m curious if these guys (and gals) filtered for “kinky” in partner selection and if not, how they managed to find a match in what I’d expect to be a niche field.
So to help her out, I think it would be great to see comments (either here or over there), especially from some of more vanilla-ish guys as to how they settled on chastity or orgasm control as a personal kink. Naturally, anyone too shy to leave a comment is welcome to email me and I can post it anonymously if you’d like.
Kink in Exile is a great blog, by the way, especially for those of you who prefer intelligent insight with your kinkiness.
And just for some motivation, I’m posting a picture of a completely stereotypical fantasy.