What do you call him?
A group of women were being mentored by a Dominatrix at a conference. She pointed to a young man, kneeling on the floor and said “If you call him submissive, you ignore his nature. If you do not call him submissive, then you ignore his reality. Quick, now, what do you call him?”
The women sat there for a moment. Then one walked over to the man and slapped him across the face.
The Dominatrix mentor just nodded and smiled.