No wrong way to do kink? » Not Just Bitchy

No wrong way to do kink? » Not Just Bitchy.

This post isn’t just for scene people; this should be required reading for anyone in a new relationship.

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The Grey Geezer Dauntless defender of, um, something that needed dauntless defending. Dammit, I can't read this script without my glasses. Hey, you kids, get off my damn lawn!
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1 Response to No wrong way to do kink? » Not Just Bitchy

  1. hmp says:

    Great Post! Many good points were made therein but I especially liked this common misconception: “Assuming kinky compatibility is the only thing you need to make a relationship work.” There are a lot more intangibles in a relationship than whether two people prefer rattan or synthetic canes, rope bondage or leather cuffs. Kink compatibility is more of a journey than a destination anyway. If you know exactly where you mesh beforehand and have everything all mapped out in advance where is the joy of discovery? Also kinky interests rarely remain static. Mine have grown and changed over time. Most importantly if you have nothing more in common than similar play interests what happens when you aren’t playing? For most of us time spent playing represents a pretty small percentage when compared with the sum total of our lives. A successful relationship, therefore, depends up on a lot more than kink compatibility IMHO.


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