Author Archives: Tom Allen

About Tom Allen

The Grey Geezer Dauntless defender of, um, something that needed dauntless defending. Dammit, I can't read this script without my glasses. Hey, you kids, get off my damn lawn!

What Is Male Chastity? – Why Do Men Wear Chastity Cages?


https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a36789418/male-chastity-cages/ Wait, wait what’s this? An article in a mainstream publication that does not make chastity cages look like some weird, perverted link, or is played up for laughs? Shira was keen to explain that chastity kinks aren’t just about … Continue reading

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The Magic Word


Mrs Edge doesn’t care for the P word because, in her mind, she had been leaving open the possibility that she might remove my stainless steel cage one day. Maybe after five or ten years, just as a reminder. Or … Continue reading

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Consent and sensibility


While the post itself is old, I’ve been referencing this a lot in the past year or so; I suspect it’s a factor of inexpensive devices allowing more men/couples to dabble with chastity. … Having solved the problems of world … Continue reading

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Transformative Orgasm Denial


Even thought I’m still working, I seem to have a little more free time on my hands because of how slowly things in the manufacturing world are moving along. This has given me a chance to look over some of … Continue reading

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SoSS 23 is out


SoSS 23 SoSS 23 Hope everyone is taking care of yourselves and each other–and here are some things to distract in a fun way. Sexy Images SinfulSunday If you insist… by Muse Of course–there is nothing else you can do. … Continue reading

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“Do you miss being able to make choices about your orgasms?”


This is from a twitter thread I recently had, and thought some people might find it useful or interesting or something. This thread is for @MidlifeKink as a result of a poll from @thumperMN . Because I’ve spent a long … Continue reading

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The Chastity / Denial Matrix


Over the years, I keep getting sucked into discussions in which some person asks a question about “permanent” chastity, and the thread devolves into a mess in which most of the responses are about defining “permanent” and then arguing about … Continue reading

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Indefinite Numbers


I can’t remember my last orgasm. There’s a certain irony to this — cruel or amusing, depending upon your mindset — because as most of us know, chastity is a game of numbers. Nobody presents this as well as Thumper, … Continue reading

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