Author Archives: Tom Allen

About Tom Allen

The Grey Geezer Dauntless defender of, um, something that needed dauntless defending. Dammit, I can't read this script without my glasses. Hey, you kids, get off my damn lawn!

Eternal Loctober


So, Loctober is here, and the various forums and Tumblrs are abuzz with chatter about a no-orgasm month, and non-stop chastity for the next few weeks. It’s funny to see how the idea has grown in the last few years. … Continue reading

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Hard Limits


In case you haven’t seen this yet, Paltego, over at Femdom Resource, just re-tweeted an operation by German firefighters or EMTs who are removing a poorly chosen metal piece (possibly a large lug nut) as a cock ring, after the … Continue reading

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Men Get Sad After Sex. Now We Have a Concrete Answer Why


Here’s an interesting article from Medium’s Mel Magazine: Men Get Sad After Sex. Now We Have a Concrete Answer Why When I first saw the topic, I thought it would be about the reported tendency for men to feel depressed, … Continue reading

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A funny thing happened on the way to the forum


Back in 2011, a few hardy bloggers and chastity fans, after seeing a new chastity/OD oriented web forum overrun with spammers and trolls, set up their own too-obviously named Chastity Forum with the intention of providing a place for the … Continue reading

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Road Warrior


I know the topic comes up a lot, especially on chastity related forums, so here’s something of interest for those of you who enjoy bicycling. Cyclists go through saddles like crazy, trying to find one that has a decent fit and … Continue reading

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No, not really


  For those of you who don’t watch those cable channels, this is not a domme. No, this is a character from a TV show who wears a lot of revealing leather, and has a lot of control over people. … Continue reading

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Not good for walking


  Every once in a while – or on Tumblr, every fifteen or twenty minutes – you run into a shot that defies description.

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Year of the Cat


Next to the “Xena” chain bra, Michelle Pfeiffer’s “Catwoman” costume did a lot for the kink community when that movie came out. Note that I’m not saying that everything it did was good.

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