Author Archives: Tom Allen

About Tom Allen

The Grey Geezer Dauntless defender of, um, something that needed dauntless defending. Dammit, I can't read this script without my glasses. Hey, you kids, get off my damn lawn!

SoSS 23 is out


SoSS 23 SoSS 23 Hope everyone is taking care of yourselves and each other–and here are some things to distract in a fun way. Sexy Images SinfulSunday If you insist… by Muse Of course–there is nothing else you can do. … Continue reading

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“Do you miss being able to make choices about your orgasms?”


This is from a twitter thread I recently had, and thought some people might find it useful or interesting or something. This thread is for @MidlifeKink as a result of a poll from @thumperMN . Because I’ve spent a long … Continue reading

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The Chastity / Denial Matrix


Over the years, I keep getting sucked into discussions in which some person asks a question about “permanent” chastity, and the thread devolves into a mess in which most of the responses are about defining “permanent” and then arguing about … Continue reading

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Indefinite Numbers


I can’t remember my last orgasm. There’s a certain irony to this — cruel or amusing, depending upon your mindset — because as most of us know, chastity is a game of numbers. Nobody presents this as well as Thumper, … Continue reading

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Moms Before MILFs


I’m not much for watching videos, but I found this amusing: You Won’t Be Able To Watch MILF Clips On Xhamster On Mother’s Day. In a Mother’s Day stunt called #MomsBeforeMILFs, porn site xHamster on Sunday will block off the … Continue reading

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Recouping the investment


I was one of the few people who didn’t freak over the Tumblr Panic of December 2018. I had the main one, The Edge of Vanilla (which I found amusing to turn into The Reds of Vanilla, in which every … Continue reading

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Temporarily Permanent


A few weeks ago on Tumblr or maybe Fetlife, I ran across the sentence “I’m in permanent chastity for the rest of the month.” Putting aside the source for the moment, the sentence was one of those syntactical jumbles that, … Continue reading

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Shrinkage: Chastity is the least of your concerns.


Good news for all of you men who are so concerned that wearing a chastity device will shrink your tonker: As it turns out, it’s going to shrink anyway, and a device is probably the least of your concerns: WILLY … Continue reading

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