Author Archives: Tom Allen

About Tom Allen

The Grey Geezer Dauntless defender of, um, something that needed dauntless defending. Dammit, I can't read this script without my glasses. Hey, you kids, get off my damn lawn!

Bad sex award 2018: the contenders in quotes | Books | The Guardian

Posted on November 30, 2018

“Empty my tanks,” I’d begged breathlessly, as once more she began drawing me deep inside her pleasure cave. Her vaginal ratchet moved in concertina-like waves, slowly chugging my organ as a boa constrictor swallows its prey. Soon I was locked … Continue reading →

Posted in Erotica, Sexuality & Relationships, writing | Tagged , | 4 Comments

Back to the Future

Posted on November 16, 2018

I’ve spent most of 2018 locked in a chastity device. My time out can literally be measured in hours: a few doctors visits and a few long distance bike rides were the only times when Mrs Edge had me remove … Continue reading →

Posted in A272, CB3000, CB6000, chastity, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Chastity Devices, Mainstream Chastity, male chastity, orgasm denial, The Fort | Tagged , , , , | 1 Comment

The problems with chastity

Posted on November 8, 2018

Apropos of the article last week, What spending two weeks in a chastity device taught me about my sexuality and my marriage, here’s one that I only ran across this week. It’s an especially insightful article, aimed at women/partners of guys who … Continue reading →

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What spending two weeks in a chastity device taught me about my sexuality and my marriage

Posted on October 27, 2018

https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/sex-locktober-chastity-belt-bdsm-marriage-relationship-sexuality-penis-a8600906.html Apparently I hit the wrong button, and accidentally posted an article that I was saving for later. After I’d had a chance to, you know, actually read it. Anywho. since a few people have already commented, I’m going to … Continue reading →

Posted in Chastity & Orgasm Denial, LOctober, male chastity, NO-vember, orgasm denial, Sexuality & Relationships | Tagged , , | 5 Comments

Eternal Loctober

Posted on October 5, 2018

So, Loctober is here, and the various forums and Tumblrs are abuzz with chatter about a no-orgasm month, and non-stop chastity for the next few weeks. It’s funny to see how the idea has grown in the last few years. … Continue reading →

Posted in A272, chastity, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Chastity Devices, male chastity, Sexuality & Relationships | Tagged , , , | 4 Comments

Hard Limits

Posted on September 5, 2018

In case you haven’t seen this yet, Paltego, over at Femdom Resource, just re-tweeted an operation by German firefighters or EMTs who are removing a poorly chosen metal piece (possibly a large lug nut) as a cock ring, after the … Continue reading →

Posted in Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Chastity Devices | 1 Comment

Men Get Sad After Sex. Now We Have a Concrete Answer Why

Posted on August 30, 2018

Here’s an interesting article from Medium’s Mel Magazine: Men Get Sad After Sex. Now We Have a Concrete Answer Why When I first saw the topic, I thought it would be about the reported tendency for men to feel depressed, … Continue reading →

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A funny thing happened on the way to the forum

Posted on June 22, 2018

Back in 2011, a few hardy bloggers and chastity fans, after seeing a new chastity/OD oriented web forum overrun with spammers and trolls, set up their own too-obviously named Chastity Forum with the intention of providing a place for the … Continue reading →

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