Category Archives: BDSM

How Kinky Sex Might Make You More Creative

Posted on November 4, 2016 by Tom Allen

Research suggests that BDSM can help people achieve altered states of consciousness Source: How Kinky Sex Might Make You More Creative In one of the more enlightened (or at least, kink friendly) articles on the association between BDSM and mental … Continue reading →

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Exploring new territory – 2

Posted on May 30, 2015 by Tom Allen

I mentioned a while back that I did something that I’m always cautioning other men around here not to do: take a full blown fantasy scenario and dump it on your unsuspecting partner, and then expect something good to happen … Continue reading →

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Pleasantly surprised

Posted on May 1, 2015 by Tom Allen

First of all, I want to thank everyone who commented and emailed to me their concerns about the apparent change in the relationship between the “vanilla” Mrs. Edge and I. Yes, that post was one of my annual April pranks. … Continue reading →

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What Is Sexually “Normal?” Rethinking Pain and Pleasure

Posted on May 9, 2014 by Tom Allen

Although I’ve long since given up on anything serious from Psychology Today, it having become the Cosmo of the social sciences, once in a while I run across a good article. This one is obviously of interest to some of … Continue reading →

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S&M is GOOD for you

Posted on February 21, 2014 by Tom Allen

I’ve been a bit busy lately (and fighting those winter doldrums), but this headline in the UK Mail Online made me perk up S&M is GOOD for you: Researchers say sadomasochism can lead to an ‘altered state of consciousness’ similar … Continue reading →

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Fifty Shades of Grey Actor Quits Movie after Reading Fifty Shades of Grey

Posted on October 16, 2013 by Tom Allen

Fifty Shades of Grey Actor Quits Movie after Reading Fifty Shades of Grey – Neatorama. Yeah, why doesn’t this surprise me? The guy finally got around to reading the script, and then backed out, citing scheduling conflicts. I guess that’s … Continue reading →

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Why are we kinky? And does it matter? | Men Submit

Posted on October 10, 2013 by Tom Allen

Why are we kinky? And does it matter? | Men Submit. Neat little article on Men Submit, but the part that jumped out at me was this: The other day I was reading a post by a guy who had … Continue reading →

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Kinky is the new normal – sort of.

Posted on October 7, 2013 by Tom Allen

Salon, which sometimes looks to be in danger of becoming the next Newsweek, actually has an interesting article on sex perverts kinky people which doesn’t manage to paint us as bizarre or twisted, while also tactfully acknowledging that, yes, there … Continue reading →

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