Category Archives: D/s

Exploring new territory


So, I was mowing the lawn (back when there was lawn instead of three feet of snow on the ground) when the idea started coming to me. Mrs. Edge was off visiting family for a couple of weeks, and I … Continue reading

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The meaning of mean


I’ve been writing on sexuality and relationships for, umm, a long time, so it’s funny for me to run into a concept that I haven’t thought about. That  is why is was great to have some feedback on my last … Continue reading

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Help a sister out


My new BFF Dishevelled Domina and I have been kicking around the idea that the terms “dominance” and “submission” in a sexual context might have too much cultural baggage to be useful, especially to new people looking for just a … Continue reading

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I think I’m having a Sugasm


The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #135? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, … Continue reading

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Not the Usual Anniversary Present – 8


Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4, Part 5, Part 6, Part 7 Week 31: Something changed for the both of us. For the next few weeks after the night that she tied me down, her libido seemed to … Continue reading

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Dating Scene


“Of course I want dessert. What, are you in a hurry or something?” Way back in the day, before she became Mrs. Edge, we were at one of those upscale Italian restaurants. You know the kind: they are usually named … Continue reading

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Rika does Vanilla!


Okay, here’s something that I rarely do – have a guest blogger here on The Edge of Vanilla. Of course, I’ve never asked anyone before, either. Anyway, long-time web surfers looking for femdom-related readings have no doubt stumbled across the … Continue reading

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Not the Usual Anniversary Present – 7


Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4, Part 5, Part 6 Week 18: My week long birthday fantasy seemed to have turned into a permanent arrangement. One night she happened to notice me rubbing some cream on the exposed … Continue reading

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