Category Archives: Female Dominant

More Male Chastity in the Mainstream

Posted on September 28, 2015 by Tom Allen

A little article in The Sun appeared in my Google alerts today, and after a few retweents I discovered that it’s actually a bit from a Closer article earlier in September. 50 Shades girlfriend reveals: “I lock up my lover’s … Continue reading →

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Strictly meaning

Posted on January 4, 2013 by Tom Allen

“I like it when you’re mean to me,” I’ve told Mrs. Edge a handful of times in the recent past. Now, you know what I mean by that, right? Good, because I’ve come to realize that I really don’t know … Continue reading →

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Watch this subspace

Posted on June 10, 2011 by Tom Allen

My friend Disheveled Domina  has a project she’s working on. She is at odds with the current paradigm that (what people commonly call) submissive men are devalued within the BDSM world. She happens to like men who identify as submissive, … Continue reading →

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Rika does Vanilla!

Posted on February 13, 2008 by Tom Allen

Okay, here’s something that I rarely do – have a guest blogger here on The Edge of Vanilla. Of course, I’ve never asked anyone before, either. Anyway, long-time web surfers looking for femdom-related readings have no doubt stumbled across the … Continue reading →

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The Hot Femdom Utopia has already passed us by

Posted on January 7, 2008 by Tom Allen

Those of us who remember the Hot Female Dominant Utopia – that section of spacetime in which men are men, and are ruled by women – it’s too late. That day was a decade and a half ago. What, don’t … Continue reading →

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