Category Archives: Female Led Relationships

Real Life Chastity Couples

Posted on September 19, 2017 by Tom Allen

If you hang out on Tumblr long enough, and if you’re following enough people, you can see things change, as pictures roll around and get reblogged, like ripples in a pond. Something that I’ve noticed for the past few months … Continue reading →

Posted in CB3000, CB6000, chastity, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Chastity Devices, Female Led Relationships, Femdom Marriage, male chastity, Metal Chastity, orgasm control, Sexuality & Relationships, Vanilla Chastity | Tagged , , , , | 4 Comments

The quiche is a lie

Posted on October 7, 2016 by Tom Allen

Some of you know that I manage a few blog aggregates — sites that are geared to the more vanilla-ish and less BDSM-y folks who have an interest in, well, whatever the hell it is that we do around here. … Continue reading →

Posted in Blogging, Blogs, Communication, Female Led Relationships, femdom | 15 Comments

Following a new path

Posted on April 1, 2015 by Tom Allen

It’s hard to believe that The Edge of Vanilla as a blog is going on nine years, after my having spent several years on various online groups (most of which no longer even exist), and that Mrs. Edge and I … Continue reading →

Posted in chastity, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Christian Femdom, D/s & BDSM, Denial, Female Led Relationships, Femdom Marriage, FLR, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Sexuality & Aging, Sexuality & Relationships | Tagged , | 14 Comments

Exploring new territory

Posted on February 19, 2015 by Tom Allen

So, I was mowing the lawn (back when there was lawn instead of three feet of snow on the ground) when the idea started coming to me. Mrs. Edge was off visiting family for a couple of weeks, and I … Continue reading →

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Can we talk about fantasies?

Posted on November 5, 2014 by Tom Allen

Mrs. Edge and I have been re-evaluating our relationship lately. Nothing major or earth-shattering; we’ve just been spending more time talking about what kinds of things work or don’t work for us, and more importantly, why they do or don’t … Continue reading →

Posted in Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Communication, Dominance, Fantasies, Female Led Relationships, femdom, relationships, Sexuality & Relationships, Transformation | Tagged , | 29 Comments

She-Held: Resources for Female Led Relationships

Posted on August 12, 2013 by Tom Allen

Back in 2010, we started Keyheld, a blog & link aggregate for people interested in chastity and orgasm denial. We wanted a resource that would feature blogs by people who were in the middle of the bell curve; that is, … Continue reading →

Posted in Female Led Relationships, Femdom Marriage, Marriage & Relationships, Sexuality & Relationships | Tagged , , , , , , | 11 Comments

Strictly meaning

Posted on January 4, 2013 by Tom Allen

“I like it when you’re mean to me,” I’ve told Mrs. Edge a handful of times in the recent past. Now, you know what I mean by that, right? Good, because I’ve come to realize that I really don’t know … Continue reading →

Posted in CB2000, CB3000, CB6000, chastity, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Chastity Devices, Female Dominant, Female Led Relationships, femdom, Fetish, male chastity, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Sexuality & Relationships | 12 Comments

Ignoring the label, and dealing with what’s inside

Posted on July 27, 2009 by Tom Allen

Okay, here’s a little quiz. Don’t worry, it’s just two questions. She is an attractive, middle-aged woman who has a controlling streak. She keeps her husband frequently locked in a chastity device, and often does not allow him to orgasm … Continue reading →

Posted in chastity, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Female Led Relationships, Fetish & Kink, male chastity, Marriage & Relationships, orgasm denial, Real Life, Sexuality & Relationships | 15 Comments