The Edge of Vanilla
I don't have multiple orgasms, but I am known to be a carrier...
Adults Only – Rated NC- M
Mature audiences only.
Not suitable for people with narrow minds.
Proper Dress Required.
Void where prohibited.
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Chastity & Orgasm Denial
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Z - Memento Mori
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Still warm
- Four years in a cage
- What Is Male Chastity? – Why Do Men Wear Chastity Cages?
- The Magic Word
- Consent and sensibility
- Transformative Orgasm Denial
- SoSS 23 is out
- “Do you miss being able to make choices about your orgasms?”
- The Chastity / Denial Matrix
- Indefinite Numbers
- Moms Before MILFs
- Recouping the investment
- Temporarily Permanent
- Shrinkage: Chastity is the least of your concerns.
- More chastity in the mainstream?
- Summer Penis Has Come and Gone. Gird Your Loins for Winter Penis
Cold Leftovers
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Category Archives: Female Led Relationships
The quiche is a lie
Some of you know that I manage a few blog aggregates — sites that are geared to the more vanilla-ish and less BDSM-y folks who have an interest in, well, whatever the hell it is that we do around here. … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging, Blogs, Communication, Female Led Relationships, femdom
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Following a new path
It’s hard to believe that The Edge of Vanilla as a blog is going on nine years, after my having spent several years on various online groups (most of which no longer even exist), and that Mrs. Edge and I … Continue reading
Exploring new territory
So, I was mowing the lawn (back when there was lawn instead of three feet of snow on the ground) when the idea started coming to me. Mrs. Edge was off visiting family for a couple of weeks, and I … Continue reading
Posted in chastity, D/s, Female Led Relationships, femdom, Femdom Marriage, FLR, male chastity
Tagged Domestic Discipline, FLR
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Can we talk about fantasies?
Mrs. Edge and I have been re-evaluating our relationship lately. Nothing major or earth-shattering; we’ve just been spending more time talking about what kinds of things work or don’t work for us, and more importantly, why they do or don’t … Continue reading
She-Held: Resources for Female Led Relationships
Back in 2010, we started Keyheld, a blog & link aggregate for people interested in chastity and orgasm denial. We wanted a resource that would feature blogs by people who were in the middle of the bell curve; that is, … Continue reading
Strictly meaning
“I like it when you’re mean to me,” I’ve told Mrs. Edge a handful of times in the recent past. Now, you know what I mean by that, right? Good, because I’ve come to realize that I really don’t know … Continue reading
Ignoring the label, and dealing with what’s inside
Okay, here’s a little quiz. Don’t worry, it’s just two questions. She is an attractive, middle-aged woman who has a controlling streak. She keeps her husband frequently locked in a chastity device, and often does not allow him to orgasm … Continue reading