Category Archives: femdom

The quiche is a lie


Some of you know that I manage a few blog aggregates — sites that are geared to the more vanilla-ish and less BDSM-y folks who have an interest in, well, whatever the hell it is that we do around here. … Continue reading

Posted in Blogging, Blogs, Communication, Female Led Relationships, femdom | 15 Comments

Pleasantly surprised


First of all, I want to thank everyone who commented and emailed to me their concerns about the apparent change in the relationship between the “vanilla” Mrs. Edge and I. Yes, that post was one of my annual April pranks. … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, femdom, Femdom Marriage, Sexuality & Relationships | 7 Comments

Exploring new territory


So, I was mowing the lawn (back when there was lawn instead of three feet of snow on the ground) when the idea started coming to me. Mrs. Edge was off visiting family for a couple of weeks, and I … Continue reading

Posted in chastity, D/s, Female Led Relationships, femdom, Femdom Marriage, FLR, male chastity | Tagged , | 11 Comments

Can we talk about fantasies?


Mrs. Edge and I have been re-evaluating our relationship lately. Nothing major or earth-shattering; we’ve just been spending more time talking about what kinds of things work or don’t work for us, and more importantly, why they do or don’t … Continue reading

Posted in Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Communication, Dominance, Fantasies, Female Led Relationships, femdom, relationships, Sexuality & Relationships, Transformation | Tagged , | 29 Comments

Reluctantly Cuckoo


I don’t particularly care for the cuckold and humiliation kink, and I usually avoid discussing those aspects in the context of chastity and OD. I mean, if that’s your kink, fine — I just really do not like the idea … Continue reading

Posted in Chastity & Orgasm Denial, femdom, Fetish & Kink, Sexuality & Relationships | 4 Comments

Where Is The 50Shades Of Femdom? – O Miss Pearl


Where Is The 50Shades Of Femdom? – O Miss Pearl. Possibly the cleverest take on the absence of the Femdom trope in modern romance literature that I’ve ever read.

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Strictly meaning


“I like it when you’re mean to me,” I’ve told Mrs. Edge a handful of times in the recent past. Now, you know what I mean by that, right? Good, because I’ve come to realize that I really don’t know … Continue reading

Posted in CB2000, CB3000, CB6000, chastity, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Chastity Devices, Female Dominant, Female Led Relationships, femdom, Fetish, male chastity, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Sexuality & Relationships | 12 Comments

Another year at the Edge


Well, it’s another year come and gone here at Edge of Vanilla Laboratories, and like most other bloggers I’m looking at my stats to see how much love I’ve gotten to see what kind of traffic has come through here. … Continue reading

Posted in chastity, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Chastity Captions, Chastity Devices, Culture, Curves, Deanna Troi, Eye Candy, femdom, Fitness, London Andrews, male chastity, Marina Sirtis, orgasm control, orgasm denial, relationships, Ruined Orgasm, Sexuality & Relationships | Tagged , , , , | 3 Comments