Category Archives: Fetish & Kink

How to have sex like Mary Poppins


A little poking around Reddit this past weekend led me to a rather interesting post: Explain how to have sex like you are Mary Poppins. I have no idea what would have prompted the question, but one of the respondents … Continue reading

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Reluctantly Cuckoo


I don’t particularly care for the cuckold and humiliation kink, and I usually avoid discussing those aspects in the context of chastity and OD. I mean, if that’s your kink, fine — I just really do not like the idea … Continue reading

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I fantasise about group sex with old, obese men


… said no woman, ev — wait, whut? I fantasise about group sex with old, obese men | Life and style | The Guardian. As a middle-aged guy who works at trying to remain fit ad attractive, this question to … Continue reading

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Fifty Shades of Grey Actor Quits Movie after Reading Fifty Shades of Grey


Fifty Shades of Grey Actor Quits Movie after Reading Fifty Shades of Grey – Neatorama. Yeah, why doesn’t this surprise me? The guy finally got around to reading the script, and then backed out, citing scheduling conflicts. I guess that’s … Continue reading

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Why are we kinky? And does it matter? | Men Submit


Why are we kinky? And does it matter? | Men Submit. Neat little article on Men Submit, but the part that jumped out at me was this: The other day I was reading a post by a guy who had … Continue reading

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Kinky is the new normal – sort of.


Salon, which sometimes looks to be in danger of becoming the next Newsweek, actually has an interesting article on sex perverts kinky people which doesn’t manage to paint us as bizarre or twisted, while also tactfully acknowledging that, yes, there … Continue reading

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No wrong way to do kink? » Not Just Bitchy


No wrong way to do kink? » Not Just Bitchy. This post isn’t just for scene people; this should be required reading for anyone in a new relationship.

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The meaning of mean


I’ve been writing on sexuality and relationships for, umm, a long time, so it’s funny for me to run into a concept that I haven’t thought about. That  is why is was great to have some feedback on my last … Continue reading

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