Category Archives: Fetish & Kink

No orgasms make for a more exciting marriage.


Yeah, some of used to do the “no orgasm” thing before it went mainstream. But apparently it’s a slow news day at ABC News: Karezza: Men Say Best Sex Comes Without Orgasm Matt Cook hasn’t had an orgasm in seven … Continue reading

Posted in Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Fetish & Kink, orgasm denial, Relationship, Sexuality & Relationships | 17 Comments

The Sex-toy Olive Garden


Remember last week when the internet went crazy because a 85+ year old woman wrote a great restaurant review about the new Olive Garden that opened in North Dakota? At first, a lot of bloggers were laying on the snark, … Continue reading

Posted in Culture, Fetish & Kink, Sex Toys, Sexuality & Relationships, Shopping | 18 Comments

Frequency Asked Question


So, I’m skimming my blogroll, and I see an interesting post over on Kink in Exile in which she asks: I’m reading some of the blogs linked off Keyheld, “an aggregate for blogs in which male chastity and orgasm denial … Continue reading

Posted in CB2000, CB3000, CB6000, chastity, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Chastity Devices, Fetish & Kink, Metal Chastity, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Sexuality & Relationships | 31 Comments

How young?


I like my women the way I like my coffee: strong, hot, and witty. That’s one of the reasons that I read Fern’s blog Domme Chronicles. Her recent post “How Old?” has nothing to do with wit, though. Instead, it … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, coming out, D/s & BDSM, Fetish & Kink, Sexuality & Relationships | 17 Comments

Are submissive men devalued?


This question has come up a few times recently; there’s some discussion at Maybe Maimed and at Delving into Deviance, and it’s been making me think about the subject; ironically because I had pretty much written such things off a … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, Culture, D/s & BDSM, Femdommery, Fetish & Kink, kink, relationships, Sexuality & Relationships | 36 Comments

Poll Dancing


Okay readers, it’s time to help out a fellow kinkster. Most of you know that I like to consider Edge of Vanilla not just an entertaining blog, but a resource for people in the community (for some value of community). … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, Beyond the Edge, Culture, D/s & BDSM, Fetish & Kink, Real Life, Resources & Discussion, Sex Blogging | 2 Comments

e[lust] #8


No, I don’t have an entry this time, but there’s some good reading in the links. Oh, and I like the corset shot, too. HNT Courtesy of Blue-Eyed Vixen Welcome to e[lust] – your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations … Continue reading

Posted in Erotica, Fetish & Kink | 1 Comment

Take it, bitch!


Dev posted an interesting picture, cribbed from Male Submission Art that depicted an angel sodomizing Satan (or possibly another demon). That led to a discussion about the cultural perception that whoever is penetrated is somehow identified with submission. The flip … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, Culture, Fetish, Fetish & Kink, kink, Strap-on, Submission | 29 Comments