Category Archives: FLR

Following a new path

Posted on April 1, 2015 by Tom Allen

It’s hard to believe that The Edge of Vanilla as a blog is going on nine years, after my having spent several years on various online groups (most of which no longer even exist), and that Mrs. Edge and I … Continue reading →

Posted in chastity, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Christian Femdom, D/s & BDSM, Denial, Female Led Relationships, Femdom Marriage, FLR, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Sexuality & Aging, Sexuality & Relationships | Tagged , | 14 Comments

Exploring new territory

Posted on February 19, 2015 by Tom Allen

So, I was mowing the lawn (back when there was lawn instead of three feet of snow on the ground) when the idea started coming to me. Mrs. Edge was off visiting family for a couple of weeks, and I … Continue reading →

Posted in chastity, D/s, Female Led Relationships, femdom, Femdom Marriage, FLR, male chastity | Tagged , | 11 Comments

Rika does Vanilla!

Posted on February 13, 2008 by Tom Allen

Okay, here’s something that I rarely do – have a guest blogger here on The Edge of Vanilla. Of course, I’ve never asked anyone before, either. Anyway, long-time web surfers looking for femdom-related readings have no doubt stumbled across the … Continue reading →

Posted in BDSM, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, D/s, D/s & BDSM, Female Dominant, Female Led Relationships, femdom, Femdommery, Fetish, Fetish & Kink, FLR, intimacy, Marriage & Relationships, Media, Relationship, relationships, sensuality, sex, Sexual & Sensual, sexuality, Sexuality & Relationships, Submission, The BDSM Thing | 12 Comments

And revolution in the air…

Posted on September 14, 2007 by Tom Allen

… or maybe it’s just something in the water? Even though I coined the term “fauxdomination” as a joke, the concept itself is serious; women around the blogosphere (and can’t we find a less kludgier word that that, please?) are … Continue reading →

Posted in CB3000, chastity, D/s, Dominance, femdom, FLR, LFA, male chastity, Manliness, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Sexual & Sensual, Submission, Vanilla Sex | 16 Comments

The Curious Incident of the Blog in the Night

Posted on October 16, 2006 by Tom Allen

The storm over the disappearance and apparent hijacking of Candace’s blog “Woman Rules Roost” has abated and now that Candace seems to have resurfaced on the FLR forums, the blogworld will eventually forget the tempest in a teapot – partly … Continue reading →

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LFA = Loving Fundie Authority

Posted on September 26, 2006 by Tom Allen

I’ve been reading over some of the messages from several of the mailing lists and web groups that focus on certain aspects of D/s, notably the groups dealing with chastity and orgasm control. I’ve mentioned that over the last several … Continue reading →

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Stealth Submission

Posted on September 12, 2006 by Tom Allen

In several of the groups that read, I often see messages from men who have desire to be submissive to their partners – generally a wife of some years. Like many who first discover a way to vent on the … Continue reading →

Posted in CB3000, chastity, FLR, kink, LFA, relationships, Submission | 5 Comments