Category Archives: intimacy

Sexual Economics


The blog “To Love, Honor, and Vacuum” has an  interesting article up today: What’s the “Price” of Sex in Your Marriage? An Economist’s Look at Sex I know, you read the word “economist” and started to doze off. It’s actually … Continue reading

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The Fifty-five Year Old Virgins


So, Mrs Edge and a bunch of her friends were going out to some local production of “Le Wicked Miz Cats” or something that I didn’t have much interest in seeing. She invited them over for dinner and drinks beforehand, … Continue reading

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The meaning of mean


I’ve been writing on sexuality and relationships for, umm, a long time, so it’s funny for me to run into a concept that I haven’t thought about. That  is why is was great to have some feedback on my last … Continue reading

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Two Experiments


Those of you familiar with the happenings of the northeastern US probably know that we had an unseasonal Nor’easter – a storm that dumped a foot or more of snow around southern New England, and knocked out power in 2/3 … Continue reading

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Coming Together: 2 – The morning after


(Mrs. Edge was on a business trip for about four weeks in July. This series details some of what transpired upon her return. Part 1 is here.) A combination of jet lag, time zone differences, late nights, a long drive, … Continue reading

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Coming Together: 1 – Reunion


(Mrs. Edge was on a business trip for about four weeks in July. This series details some of what transpired upon her return.) “I wasn’t planning to let you out,” she said. “I hope you weren’t expecting it.” “I… I’ve … Continue reading

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Weirded out


Okay, so here’s the deal: I have a new friend, a cute 27 year old woman who has been emailing me and being generally pleasant and chatty. She’s a professional in the local entertainment media, and we chat – via … Continue reading

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The Puerile Cuckoo


Okay, fasten your seat belts, because I feel a rant coming on. The Edge of Vanilla gets a lot of hits from people searching on male chastity and orgasm denial. Those kinks overlap with others, among which are: BDSM, transvestism, … Continue reading

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