Category Archives: kink

How Kinky Sex Might Make You More Creative


Research suggests that BDSM can help people achieve altered states of consciousness Source: How Kinky Sex Might Make You More Creative In one of the more enlightened (or at least, kink friendly) articles on the association between BDSM and mental … Continue reading

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I fantasise about group sex with old, obese men


… said no woman, ev — wait, whut? I fantasise about group sex with old, obese men | Life and style | The Guardian. As a middle-aged guy who works at trying to remain fit ad attractive, this question to … Continue reading

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The meaning of mean


I’ve been writing on sexuality and relationships for, umm, a long time, so it’s funny for me to run into a concept that I haven’t thought about. That  is why is was great to have some feedback on my last … Continue reading

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Are submissive men devalued?


This question has come up a few times recently; there’s some discussion at Maybe Maimed and at Delving into Deviance, and it’s been making me think about the subject; ironically because I had pretty much written such things off a … Continue reading

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Take it, bitch!


Dev posted an interesting picture, cribbed from Male Submission Art that depicted an angel sodomizing Satan (or possibly another demon). That led to a discussion about the cultural perception that whoever is penetrated is somehow identified with submission. The flip … Continue reading

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No Surprise


So, Mrs. Edge is in the kitchen, baking some apple crisp and banana bread. I wander in foraging for some food, and eat a few potato chips from the bag on the fridge. After a few mouthfuls I get irritated … Continue reading

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Orgasm Denial? Oh, Pooh!


I was one of those fortunate children who learned to read at a young age. Some relative bought me a set of books that my parents never read to me, so I was probably in first or second grade before … Continue reading

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Piercing, Chastity, and the country of the blind


Okay, okay, okay. I hear you. Sheesh! It’s finally time for me to stop crowing about my fitness program, my diet, my shapely muscle definition (did I mention that you can finally start to see my ab muscles?), and the … Continue reading

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