Category Archives: orgasm control

The Chastity / Denial Matrix


Over the years, I keep getting sucked into discussions in which some person asks a question about “permanent” chastity, and the thread devolves into a mess in which most of the responses are about defining “permanent” and then arguing about … Continue reading

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A funny thing happened on the way to the forum


Back in 2011, a few hardy bloggers and chastity fans, after seeing a new chastity/OD oriented web forum overrun with spammers and trolls, set up their own too-obviously named Chastity Forum with the intention of providing a place for the … Continue reading

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Real Life Chastity Couples


If you hang out on Tumblr long enough, and if you’re following enough people, you can see things change, as pictures roll around and get reblogged, like ripples in a pond. Something that I’ve noticed for the past few months … Continue reading

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A Guide To Chastity Play And Devices | Lifehacker Australia


Source: A Guide To Chastity Play And Devices | Lifehacker Australia When we hear the word “chastity”, we often think of virginal maidens hiding in ivory towers, monks keeping their hands to themselves and other such examples of abstinence. We … Continue reading

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What to Do If You’re a Guy Who Struggles to Orgasm


Yeah, I’m just going to leave this here without comment. šŸ˜‰ I’m willing to bet that nine out of ten people who read this headline will think, ā€œA dude who has trouble orgasming? Yeah, right.ā€ Difficulty reaching orgasm is typically … Continue reading

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Study: Ejaculate More, Have Less Prostate Cancer Risk


Can we all stand to read yet another article on this topic? From a March Medscape article: Study: Ejaculate More, Have Less Prostate Cancer Risk A study on ejaculation and prostate cancer risk, which made a big splash at last … Continue reading

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More Male Chastity in the Mainstream


A little article in The Sun appeared in my Google alerts today, and after a few retweents I discovered that it’s actually a bit from a Closer article earlier in September. 50 Shades girlfriend reveals: ā€œI lock up my lover’s … Continue reading

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Following a new path


It’s hard to believe that The Edge of Vanilla as a blog is going on nine years, after my having spent several years on various online groups (most of which no longer even exist), and that Mrs. Edge and I … Continue reading

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