Category Archives: orgasm denial

The Chastity / Denial Matrix

Posted on December 4, 2019 by Tom Allen

Over the years, I keep getting sucked into discussions in which some person asks a question about “permanent” chastity, and the thread devolves into a mess in which most of the responses are about defining “permanent” and then arguing about … Continue reading →

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Indefinite Numbers

Posted on July 26, 2019 by Tom Allen

I can’t remember my last orgasm. There’s a certain irony to this — cruel or amusing, depending upon your mindset — because as most of us know, chastity is a game of numbers. Nobody presents this as well as Thumper, … Continue reading →

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Moms Before MILFs

Posted on May 11, 2019 by Tom Allen

I’m not much for watching videos, but I found this amusing: You Won’t Be Able To Watch MILF Clips On Xhamster On Mother’s Day. In a Mother’s Day stunt called #MomsBeforeMILFs, porn site xHamster on Sunday will block off the … Continue reading →

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Back to the Future

Posted on November 16, 2018 by Tom Allen

I’ve spent most of 2018 locked in a chastity device. My time out can literally be measured in hours: a few doctors visits and a few long distance bike rides were the only times when Mrs Edge had me remove … Continue reading →

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The problems with chastity

Posted on November 8, 2018 by Tom Allen

Apropos of the article last week, What spending two weeks in a chastity device taught me about my sexuality and my marriage, here’s one that I only ran across this week. It’s an especially insightful article, aimed at women/partners of guys who … Continue reading →

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What spending two weeks in a chastity device taught me about my sexuality and my marriage

Posted on October 27, 2018 by Tom Allen

https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/sex-locktober-chastity-belt-bdsm-marriage-relationship-sexuality-penis-a8600906.html Apparently I hit the wrong button, and accidentally posted an article that I was saving for later. After I’d had a chance to, you know, actually read it. Anywho. since a few people have already commented, I’m going to … Continue reading →

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A funny thing happened on the way to the forum

Posted on June 22, 2018 by Tom Allen

Back in 2011, a few hardy bloggers and chastity fans, after seeing a new chastity/OD oriented web forum overrun with spammers and trolls, set up their own too-obviously named Chastity Forum with the intention of providing a place for the … Continue reading →

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A Guide To Chastity Play And Devices | Lifehacker Australia

Posted on June 20, 2017 by Tom Allen

Source: A Guide To Chastity Play And Devices | Lifehacker Australia When we hear the word “chastity”, we often think of virginal maidens hiding in ivory towers, monks keeping their hands to themselves and other such examples of abstinence. We … Continue reading →

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