Category Archives: Real Life

Wait, what did he say again?


See, I figured that the Rapture had already come back in 1981…

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Poll Dancing


Okay readers, it’s time to help out a fellow kinkster. Most of you know that I like to consider Edge of Vanilla not just an entertaining blog, but a resource for people in the community (for some value of community). … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, Beyond the Edge, Culture, D/s & BDSM, Fetish & Kink, Real Life, Resources & Discussion, Sex Blogging | 2 Comments

Remodeling Bugs


Gosh, what  poor host I can be! Over the weekend, Jane’s Guide gave The Edge of Vanilla a very nice write-up, and I haven’t had any decent new content in weeks for the new visitors. Not to worry; things are … Continue reading

Posted in Blog Candy, Humor, Musing & Amusing, Real Life, Sexuality & Relationships | 4 Comments

When life imitates (bad) art


Well, this is embarrassing. There hasn’t been much chastity play at the Edge household lately; in fact, not for maybe a good six months. This is mainly due to a lot of job and family stress: The Elm City Consumer … Continue reading

Posted in Birdlock, CB2000, CB3000, CB6000, chastity, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Chastity Devices, male chastity, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Real Life, True Tales | Tagged , , | 23 Comments

Ignoring the label, and dealing with what’s inside


Okay, here’s a little quiz. Don’t worry, it’s just two questions. She is an attractive, middle-aged woman who has a controlling streak. She keeps her husband frequently locked in a chastity device, and often does not allow him to orgasm … Continue reading

Posted in chastity, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Female Led Relationships, Fetish & Kink, male chastity, Marriage & Relationships, orgasm denial, Real Life, Sexuality & Relationships | 15 Comments

Male Chastity – In real life


My little rant about the childish wankers who screw up adult forums initiated several responses, including one from my friend Aarkey who elaborates on why adults need time away from children chastity practitioners need someplace to discuss whys and hows, … Continue reading

Posted in CB2000, CB3000, CB6000, chastity, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Chastity Devices, male chastity, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Real Life, Sexuality & Relationships | Tagged , , , | 34 Comments