The Edge of Vanilla
I don't have multiple orgasms, but I am known to be a carrier...
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Z - Memento Mori
Z-List: AWOL & MIA
- Four years in a cage
- What Is Male Chastity? – Why Do Men Wear Chastity Cages?
- The Magic Word
- Consent and sensibility
- Transformative Orgasm Denial
- SoSS 23 is out
- “Do you miss being able to make choices about your orgasms?”
- The Chastity / Denial Matrix
- Indefinite Numbers
- Moms Before MILFs
- Recouping the investment
- Temporarily Permanent
- Shrinkage: Chastity is the least of your concerns.
- More chastity in the mainstream?
- Summer Penis Has Come and Gone. Gird Your Loins for Winter Penis
Category Archives: Relationship
The blog “To Love, Honor, and Vacuum” has an interesting article up today: What’s the “Price” of Sex in Your Marriage? An Economist’s Look at Sex I know, you read the word “economist” and started to doze off. It’s actually … Continue reading
Exploring new territory – 2
I mentioned a while back that I did something that I’m always cautioning other men around here not to do: take a full blown fantasy scenario and dump it on your unsuspecting partner, and then expect something good to happen … Continue reading
Posted in BDSM, Fantasies, Relationship, Sexuality & Relationships Tagged BDSM, Sexuality & Relationships 10 Comments
No orgasms make for a more exciting marriage.
Yeah, some of used to do the “no orgasm” thing before it went mainstream. But apparently it’s a slow news day at ABC News: Karezza: Men Say Best Sex Comes Without Orgasm Matt Cook hasn’t had an orgasm in seven … Continue reading
Rika does Vanilla!
Okay, here’s something that I rarely do – have a guest blogger here on The Edge of Vanilla. Of course, I’ve never asked anyone before, either. Anyway, long-time web surfers looking for femdom-related readings have no doubt stumbled across the … Continue reading
Posted in BDSM, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, D/s, D/s & BDSM, Female Dominant, Female Led Relationships, femdom, Femdommery, Fetish, Fetish & Kink, FLR, intimacy, Marriage & Relationships, Media, Relationship, relationships, sensuality, sex, Sexual & Sensual, sexuality, Sexuality & Relationships, Submission, The BDSM Thing 12 Comments
Men are from
Mars Earth, Women are from Venus Earth.
I’m referring back to the post from a couple of weeks ago in which Dee from Sexywhispers threatened offered to interview me. Because she asked such very good questions, the kind to which I wanted to devote more than a … Continue reading
Well? How Did I Get Here?
I’ve hit a blogging milestone of sorts. Over the last week I’ve watched as first my original Blogger version of “The Edge of Vanilla” rolled past the 25,000 hits mark. I started that blog back in August, when I decided … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging, CB3000, chastity, coming out, Communication, Disclosure, Fetish, kink, male chastity, Relationship, sexuality, The BDSM Thing 11 Comments
A new convert?
I don’t really know what the turning point for me was when exploring the idea of orgasm denial, nor does Mrs. Edge know when it began to come together for her (bad pun, sorry). She does remember that back when … Continue reading
Posted in CB3000, chastity, kink, male chastity, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Relationship, sensuality 11 Comments