Category Archives: sensuality

Weirded out

Posted on May 29, 2008 by Tom Allen

Okay, so here’s the deal: I have a new friend, a cute 27 year old woman who has been emailing me and being generally pleasant and chatty. She’s a professional in the local entertainment media, and we chat – via … Continue reading →

Posted in Communication, Disclosure, intimacy, relationships, Resources & Discussion, sensuality, Sexuality & Relationships, vanilla | Tagged | 16 Comments

What is your sexual nationality?

Posted on May 8, 2008 by Tom Allen

Okay, this is too funny not to share. Are you British in bed? Yes, it’s a commercial for K-Y Products, but the Flash test leading up to it will keep you entertained for a while. What nationality is Tom Allen? … Continue reading →

Posted in Blogthing, Erotic Musings, Humor, Interesting Oddities, Musing & Amusing, sensuality, Sexuality & Relationships | Tagged , | 21 Comments

Dating Scene

Posted on February 22, 2008 by Tom Allen

“Of course I want dessert. What, are you in a hurry or something?” Way back in the day, before she became Mrs. Edge, we were at one of those upscale Italian restaurants. You know the kind: they are usually named … Continue reading →

Posted in Beyond the Edge, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, D/s, D/s & BDSM, Dating, Erotic Musings, Erotica, Femdommery, intimacy, orgasm control, orgasm denial, relationships, sensuality, sex, True Tales | Tagged , , , | 17 Comments

Rika does Vanilla!

Posted on February 13, 2008 by Tom Allen

Okay, here’s something that I rarely do – have a guest blogger here on The Edge of Vanilla. Of course, I’ve never asked anyone before, either. Anyway, long-time web surfers looking for femdom-related readings have no doubt stumbled across the … Continue reading →

Posted in BDSM, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, D/s, D/s & BDSM, Female Dominant, Female Led Relationships, femdom, Femdommery, Fetish, Fetish & Kink, FLR, intimacy, Marriage & Relationships, Media, Relationship, relationships, sensuality, sex, Sexual & Sensual, sexuality, Sexuality & Relationships, Submission, The BDSM Thing | 12 Comments

Blog Candy

Posted on January 18, 2008 by Tom Allen

Wow! I mean, I check the stats daily, so I know people are reading, but it’s so wonderful to have people tell me just how much they enjoy reading this blog. I’m touched by the generous comments from my last … Continue reading →

Posted in Blog Candy, Blogging, Eye Candy, Nudity, sensuality, Sexual & Sensual | 11 Comments

Transformative Orgasm Denial

Posted on December 20, 2007 by Tom Allen

Maymay had an interesting insight as to why so many chastity and orgasm denial blogs don’t seem to last very long. Things that are are more interesting than things that are not. Which is nothing new to you, I’m sure, … Continue reading →

Posted in CB3000, CB6000, chastity, Chastity Devices, male chastity, Manliness, Masturbation, orgasm control, orgasm denial, relationships, sensuality, Sexuality & Relationships, True Tales | Tagged , , , , | 16 Comments

Out with the old…

Posted on October 16, 2007 by Tom Allen

Okay, I give up. Back in the beginning of August 2006, I bit the proverbial bullet and had a 3/32″ thick, 5/8″ long metal lightning rod implanted in the sensitive area of my. . . Oh hell, you can’t have … Continue reading →

Posted in Beyond the Edge, Body Image, body mod, CB3000, chastity, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Fetish, Fetish & Kink, kink, male chastity, Manliness, Marriage & Relationships, orgasm control, orgasm denial, piercing, relationships, sensuality, True Tales | 18 Comments

A new convert?

Posted on May 9, 2007 by Tom Allen

I don’t really know what the turning point for me was when exploring the idea of orgasm denial, nor does Mrs. Edge know when it began to come together for her (bad pun, sorry). She does remember that back when … Continue reading →

Posted in CB3000, chastity, kink, male chastity, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Relationship, sensuality | 11 Comments