Category Archives: Sexual & Sensual

Hot ‘n’ Heavy


I’ve been a big fan of Gloria Brame for years, ever since I discovered her “Different Loving” over a decade ago. At the time, I had not realized that there were books available as resources (as opposed to wank fodder), … Continue reading

Posted in Appearance, Sex news, Sexual & Sensual, sexuality, Sexuality & Relationships | Tagged , | 23 Comments

53 Days


“So, how many days has it been, now?” I brushed away a fine hair that had been tickling my nose and thought for a moment. “Fifty three days so far,” I answered. She had one leg over my shoulder, and … Continue reading

Posted in Beyond the Edge, CB2000, CB3000, CB6000, chastity, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Chastity Devices, Erotic Musings, Erotica, Friday Fantasy, male chastity, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Sexual & Sensual, Sexuality & Relationships | 47 Comments

Guess what I’m wearing?


Go ahead, guess. Oh hell, this should have been a no-brainer for 90% of the regular visitors here. Yes, I’m wearing a new CB-6000. I’ve been wearing it off and on – mainly on – since Friday morning. I’ve needed … Continue reading

Posted in CB2000, CB3000, CB6000, chastity, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Chastity Devices, Fetish, male chastity, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Sexual & Sensual | Tagged , , , | 20 Comments

Rika does Vanilla!


Okay, here’s something that I rarely do – have a guest blogger here on The Edge of Vanilla. Of course, I’ve never asked anyone before, either. Anyway, long-time web surfers looking for femdom-related readings have no doubt stumbled across the … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, D/s, D/s & BDSM, Female Dominant, Female Led Relationships, femdom, Femdommery, Fetish, Fetish & Kink, FLR, intimacy, Marriage & Relationships, Media, Relationship, relationships, sensuality, sex, Sexual & Sensual, sexuality, Sexuality & Relationships, Submission, The BDSM Thing | 12 Comments

Blog Candy


Wow! I mean, I check the stats daily, so I know people are reading, but it’s so wonderful to have people tell me just how much they enjoy reading this blog. I’m touched by the generous comments from my last … Continue reading

Posted in Blog Candy, Blogging, Eye Candy, Nudity, sensuality, Sexual & Sensual | 11 Comments

How to dominate a dominant woman


Because, you know, they all secretly want to be submissive. Not to mention that they will respect men who do this. I ran across this interesting tidbit this afternoon, and I knew my friends would all get something out of … Continue reading

Posted in Communication, Culture, Manliness, relationships, Sexual & Sensual | Tagged , | 13 Comments

Denial is good…


. . .  but sometimes non-denial is pretty freakin’ awesome, too. As can be “fucking so much that you’re wearing the skin off of your wabbly bits.” Hey, I’m just sayin’.

Posted in Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Chastity Devices, Erotic Musings, Hot Married Sex, Marriage & Relationships, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Sexual & Sensual, sexuality, Sexuality & Relationships, Vanilla Sex | 8 Comments

And revolution in the air…


… or maybe it’s just something in the water? Even though I coined the term “fauxdomination” as a joke, the concept itself is serious; women around the blogosphere (and can’t we find a less kludgier word that that, please?) are … Continue reading

Posted in CB3000, chastity, D/s, Dominance, femdom, FLR, LFA, male chastity, Manliness, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Sexual & Sensual, Submission, Vanilla Sex | 16 Comments