Category Archives: Sexual & Sensual

Hot ‘n’ Heavy

Posted on November 3, 2008 by Tom Allen

I’ve been a big fan of Gloria Brame for years, ever since I discovered her “Different Loving” over a decade ago. At the time, I had not realized that there were books available as resources (as opposed to wank fodder), … Continue reading →

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53 Days

Posted on May 23, 2008 by Tom Allen

“So, how many days has it been, now?” I brushed away a fine hair that had been tickling my nose and thought for a moment. “Fifty three days so far,” I answered. She had one leg over my shoulder, and … Continue reading →

Posted in Beyond the Edge, CB2000, CB3000, CB6000, chastity, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Chastity Devices, Erotic Musings, Erotica, Friday Fantasy, male chastity, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Sexual & Sensual, Sexuality & Relationships | 47 Comments

Guess what I’m wearing?

Posted on April 7, 2008 by Tom Allen

Go ahead, guess. Oh hell, this should have been a no-brainer for 90% of the regular visitors here. Yes, I’m wearing a new CB-6000. I’ve been wearing it off and on – mainly on – since Friday morning. I’ve needed … Continue reading →

Posted in CB2000, CB3000, CB6000, chastity, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Chastity Devices, Fetish, male chastity, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Sexual & Sensual | Tagged , , , | 20 Comments

Rika does Vanilla!

Posted on February 13, 2008 by Tom Allen

Okay, here’s something that I rarely do – have a guest blogger here on The Edge of Vanilla. Of course, I’ve never asked anyone before, either. Anyway, long-time web surfers looking for femdom-related readings have no doubt stumbled across the … Continue reading →

Posted in BDSM, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, D/s, D/s & BDSM, Female Dominant, Female Led Relationships, femdom, Femdommery, Fetish, Fetish & Kink, FLR, intimacy, Marriage & Relationships, Media, Relationship, relationships, sensuality, sex, Sexual & Sensual, sexuality, Sexuality & Relationships, Submission, The BDSM Thing | 12 Comments

Blog Candy

Posted on January 18, 2008 by Tom Allen

Wow! I mean, I check the stats daily, so I know people are reading, but it’s so wonderful to have people tell me just how much they enjoy reading this blog. I’m touched by the generous comments from my last … Continue reading →

Posted in Blog Candy, Blogging, Eye Candy, Nudity, sensuality, Sexual & Sensual | 11 Comments

How to dominate a dominant woman

Posted on January 3, 2008 by Tom Allen

Because, you know, they all secretly want to be submissive. Not to mention that they will respect men who do this. I ran across this interesting tidbit this afternoon, and I knew my friends would all get something out of … Continue reading →

Posted in Communication, Culture, Manliness, relationships, Sexual & Sensual | Tagged , | 13 Comments

Denial is good…

Posted on January 2, 2008 by Tom Allen

. . .  but sometimes non-denial is pretty freakin’ awesome, too. As can be “fucking so much that you’re wearing the skin off of your wabbly bits.” Hey, I’m just sayin’.

Posted in Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Chastity Devices, Erotic Musings, Hot Married Sex, Marriage & Relationships, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Sexual & Sensual, sexuality, Sexuality & Relationships, Vanilla Sex | 8 Comments

And revolution in the air…

Posted on September 14, 2007 by Tom Allen

… or maybe it’s just something in the water? Even though I coined the term “fauxdomination” as a joke, the concept itself is serious; women around the blogosphere (and can’t we find a less kludgier word that that, please?) are … Continue reading →

Posted in CB3000, chastity, D/s, Dominance, femdom, FLR, LFA, male chastity, Manliness, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Sexual & Sensual, Submission, Vanilla Sex | 16 Comments