Category Archives: sexuality

Men Get Sad After Sex. Now We Have a Concrete Answer Why

Here’s an interesting article from Medium’s Mel Magazine: Men Get Sad After Sex. Now We Have a Concrete Answer Why When I first saw the topic, I thought it would be about the reported tendency for men to feel depressed, … Continue reading

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What Is Sexually “Normal?” Rethinking Pain and Pleasure

Although I’ve long since given up on anything serious from Psychology Today, it having become the Cosmo of the social sciences, once in a while I run across a good article. This one is obviously of interest to some of … Continue reading

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Two roads to orgasm | Psychology Today

Two roads to orgasm | Psychology Today. I ran across a short but interesting article that touches on what so many people get out of orgasm denial play. In the Psychology Today blog, therapist Steven Snyder writes: One might say … Continue reading

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G Whiz

I’ve been pretty fortunate to have had lovers to whom orgasm came relatively easily. While I’d like to believe that it’s due to my own skill and attentive nature, the fact is that for reasons not completely understood, a large … Continue reading

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They Ain’t Pagan Virgins…

Some people fire up their web browser and run down the lost of bookmarks, perhaps check out a couple of the links that they’re run across, and then they’re done for the night. Here at Edge of Vanilla Labs, though, … Continue reading

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Hot ‘n’ Heavy

I’ve been a big fan of Gloria Brame for years, ever since I discovered her “Different Loving” over a decade ago. At the time, I had not realized that there were books available as resources (as opposed to wank fodder), … Continue reading

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Forced Bye

Okay, I have a question. It’s about the reaction to one of my stories. I think I’m missing something. 53 Days is not my most popular story, but it has managed to garner quite a few hits since I published … Continue reading

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I think I’m having a Sugasm

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #135? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, … Continue reading

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