Category Archives: sexuality

Short sex is best say experts


I don’t quite know what to make of this news item from Australia. Maybe our friends from Down Under can weigh in? From an article in The Herald Sun (Aus) Short sex is best say experts March 05, 2008 12:07pm … Continue reading

Posted in Communication, Culture, Interesting Oddities, Marriage & Relationships, News, sexuality, Sexuality & Relationships | Tagged , , | 19 Comments

Rika does Vanilla!


Okay, here’s something that I rarely do – have a guest blogger here on The Edge of Vanilla. Of course, I’ve never asked anyone before, either. Anyway, long-time web surfers looking for femdom-related readings have no doubt stumbled across the … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, D/s, D/s & BDSM, Female Dominant, Female Led Relationships, femdom, Femdommery, Fetish, Fetish & Kink, FLR, intimacy, Marriage & Relationships, Media, Relationship, relationships, sensuality, sex, Sexual & Sensual, sexuality, Sexuality & Relationships, Submission, The BDSM Thing | 12 Comments

Denial is good…


. . .  but sometimes non-denial is pretty freakin’ awesome, too. As can be “fucking so much that you’re wearing the skin off of your wabbly bits.” Hey, I’m just sayin’.

Posted in Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Chastity Devices, Erotic Musings, Hot Married Sex, Marriage & Relationships, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Sexual & Sensual, sexuality, Sexuality & Relationships, Vanilla Sex | 8 Comments

Balance & the submissive CEO


This post started out as a comment to the discussion on my last post, specifically the discussion between Toni and Maymay with regard to the stereotyping of corporate CEO types having submissive streaks. It started getting out of control as … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, Beyond the Edge, D/s, D/s & BDSM, Femdommery, Fetish & Kink, kink, Manliness, relationships, sexuality, Sexuality & Relationships | 8 Comments

Hair today…


Okay, partly as a result of the anonymous comments about my piercing and buff pics, I’m about I’m about to go all bitchyjones on some of you people. But first, I’m going to get esoteric for a moment. Symbols are … Continue reading

Posted in Appearance, BDSM, Body Image, body mod, CB3000, chastity, D/s, Disclosure, male chastity, Manliness, sexuality, Submission | 20 Comments

Not a meme – 1


I’m referring back to the post from a couple of weeks ago in which Dee from Sexywhispers threatened offered to interview me. Because she asked such very good questions, the kind to which I wanted to devote more than a … Continue reading

Posted in Blogging, Blogthing, CB3000, chastity, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, D/s & BDSM, Disclosure, Fetish & Kink, kink, male chastity, meme, orgasm control, orgasm denial, sexuality | 16 Comments

Next up: Sun rises in East


And coming on the heels of a recent story about what women look for in manly attractiveness comes this Associated Press hot breaking science news story: Earth-Shattering Study: Men Like Good-Looking Women Tuesday, September 04, 2007 WASHINGTON — Science is … Continue reading

Posted in Appearance, Body Image, Dating, Health, Humor, Medical, News, sexuality | 6 Comments

Damn Wankees


Okay, this little comment in a recent article from Joe Flirt caught my eye: When you are used to relieving your… internal pressure… a couple of times a day as I am, it becomes a real problem when you are … Continue reading

Posted in chastity, male chastity, Masturbation, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Sexual & Sensual, sexuality, Tantra, tao | 9 Comments