Category Archives: Vanilla Sex

Sexual Economics

The blog “To Love, Honor, and Vacuum” has an  interesting article up today: What’s the “Price” of Sex in Your Marriage? An Economist’s Look at Sex I know, you read the word “economist” and started to doze off. It’s actually … Continue reading

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Chastity Aficionado

A few months ago I mentioned Angela Lewis, a researcher who had just published a book called My Other Self, which was a look at the very normal real lives of some people with unusual sex lives. Ms. Lewis, while … Continue reading

Posted in A Bit of Vanilla, Birdlock, Blogs, CB2000, CB3000, CB6000, chastity, Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Chastity Devices, Culture, orgasm control, orgasm denial, True Tales, Vanilla Sex | Tagged , , , | 9 Comments

Stereotypical Joke

Jokes are a great way to study culture because they often portray those things that people may think without being willing to admit publicly. I subscribe to a joke-a-day list, and like most of you, I get dozens of stale … Continue reading

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Denial is good…

. . .  but sometimes non-denial is pretty freakin’ awesome, too. As can be “fucking so much that you’re wearing the skin off of your wabbly bits.” Hey, I’m just sayin’.

Posted in Chastity & Orgasm Denial, Chastity Devices, Erotic Musings, Hot Married Sex, Marriage & Relationships, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Sexual & Sensual, sexuality, Sexuality & Relationships, Vanilla Sex | 8 Comments

And revolution in the air…

… or maybe it’s just something in the water? Even though I coined the term “fauxdomination” as a joke, the concept itself is serious; women around the blogosphere (and can’t we find a less kludgier word that that, please?) are … Continue reading

Posted in CB3000, chastity, D/s, Dominance, femdom, FLR, LFA, male chastity, Manliness, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Sexual & Sensual, Submission, Vanilla Sex | 16 Comments

Hear me, hear me!

As if I need one more thing to feed the Shatner-esque ego monster that I have developed over the last year or so, along comes Maymay who gets this idea that people might actually enjoy listening to me ramble on … Continue reading

Posted in Blogging, CB3000, chastity, Communication, D/s, Dating, Fetish, Health, kink, male chastity, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Podcast, relationships, Sex games, Sexual & Sensual, Strap-on, Submission, The BDSM Thing, vanilla, Vanilla Sex | 13 Comments


*sighs* Mmmmm… vacation sex. ’nuff said.

Posted in orgasm control, orgasm denial, sex, Sexual & Sensual, Vanilla Sex | 11 Comments