A funny thing happened on the way to the forum

Back in 2011, a few hardy bloggers and chastity fans, after seeing a new chastity/OD oriented web forum overrun with spammers and trolls, set up their own too-obviously named Chastity Forum with the intention of providing a place for the (mainly) vanilla-inclined people to discuss chastity, devices, techniques, etc., without the distraction of a lot of other BDSM and related interests. Initiated by Thumper, the forum remained small, but friendly.

A couple of years ago, the forum was hit with some malware that caused search redirects, and while we were able to remove the malware, a few background issues, including a lack of time kept us from getting under the hood and upgrading the works from the paleolithic coding.

Enter Schnoff. Realizing that it was still a great resource, Schnoff managed to move the forum to a new server, upgrade the ancient PHPbb software, and add a few features – all within a week or so. We’ve been testing things out, and it doesn’t appear that we’ve lost anything in the transition.

So, for those of you who stopped visiting, please feel free to check it out again, if only to give some props to Schoff for his hard work.

Also, for those of you so inclined, you might want to check out the Discord channel created by Chastity Forum member TeaseMe. It’s small, but growing, and if you have spent any time on the forums, you’ll probably run into some familiar names.

Mrs Edge said something very similar to this the other day. It was, umm… kind of hot.

Actually, what she said was “I don’t really care how long you’ve been caged. I never even think about it anymore.”

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Road Warrior

I know the topic comes up a lot, especially on chastity related forums, so here’s something of interest for those of you who enjoy bicycling.

Cyclists go through saddles like crazy, trying to find one that has a decent fit and doesn’t leave your ass or man bits going numb after a few hours. I happened to stumble across the Selle SMP TRK saddle at a local bike shop, and for the last couple of years have really appreciated the thought that had gone into the design. It looks a little funny because it’s a split saddle (that is, it’s open in the center) and the nose dips down like an eagle beak. The combination of those two features made me wonder if this saddle would allow cycling with a device.

I finally got a chance to try it out last week. The answer is, yes – with some qualifications.

Note that I am a road cyclist, but I tend to ride on the hoods or up on the bars, and not hunched over in the drops (I’m not 24 anymore, if you get my drift). I wore normal Lycra shorts with nothing underneath (for those of you who didn’t know, this is normal. Think about it the next time you’re standing next to a Middle Aged Man in Lycra.), and applied a liberal amount of Gold Bond lotion around the ring. After I clipped in, I sat up, and found I had to move/twist the cage slightly more to the side than I would in snug jeans, but once I got going along it was fine. In fact, after the first few miles, I forgot I had it on, and kept going at a nice pace. Since it was my first ride of the season, I was just warming up, and kept to the flatter roads (well, what passes for flat in central Connecticut).

At some point I stopped for a drink, and switched the cage to the other side of my seam. I had a couple of minor pulls that I attributed to hairs getting caught. About 10 or 12 miles out I did notice that things were a little out of place (it gets hot in those shorts), but a quick stop to readjust set everything right again. I finished the 15 mile ride with no chafing, redness, pinching, or any other problem.

Again, this was a shorter ride for me, with no steep climbs. I maybe averaged 13-14 mph, and didn’t do anything unusual. The lotion held up pretty well, and I should mention that I’m in the A272, which has a flat profile on the cuff ring, so I’m not sure what difference a round ring would make, but I suspect less friction.

I’m not sure if I would try a 50 mile ride, although I’ll try a longer ride soon just to see how things hold up. However, for those of you who typically ride a more upright bike along the bike trails, then the TRK might be the saddle that works for you. Hell, even if you’re *not* thinking about riding in a device, it’s still a very good, well made, and comfortable saddle.

From the sound of things, her partner should probably be thinking about upgrading his bike saddle, as well.

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No, not really


For those of you who don’t watch those cable channels, this is not a domme. No, this is a character from a TV show who wears a lot of revealing leather, and has a lot of control over people. Her leather outfit with all the studs would fool you into thinking that she’s some kind of professional mistress, though, wouldn’t it? It’s amazing how we recognize what one is supposed to look like.

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Not good for walking


Every once in a while – or on Tumblr, every fifteen or twenty minutes – you run into a shot that defies description.

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Year of the Cat

Next to the “Xena” chain bra, Michelle Pfeiffer’s “Catwoman” costume did a lot for the kink community when that movie came out.

Note that I’m not saying that everything it did was good.

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Chilly day in the hood

Man, you can just tell that the air conditioning is set to Max in this room, can’t you?

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OSHA is this okay?

Acrylic platform shoes on a skinny industrial aluminum vertical ladder. Yeah, can anybody see the accident that’s going to happen in the next three minutes? Look for it on the YouTube channel “FailDom: Hilarious Dom and Domme fails.”

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“Dammit, I can’t remember if I left the stove on again.”

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