Tag Archives: BDSM

Consent and sensibility

Posted on April 17, 2020 by Tom Allen

While the post itself is old, I’ve been referencing this a lot in the past year or so; I suspect it’s a factor of inexpensive devices allowing more men/couples to dabble with chastity. … Having solved the problems of world … Continue reading →

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Exploring new territory – 2

Posted on May 30, 2015 by Tom Allen

I mentioned a while back that I did something that I’m always cautioning other men around here not to do: take a full blown fantasy scenario and dump it on your unsuspecting partner, and then expect something good to happen … Continue reading →

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Kinky is the new normal – sort of.

Posted on October 7, 2013 by Tom Allen

Salon, which sometimes looks to be in danger of becoming the next Newsweek, actually has an interesting article on sex perverts kinky people which doesn’t manage to paint us as bizarre or twisted, while also tactfully acknowledging that, yes, there … Continue reading →

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Consent and sensibility

Posted on April 4, 2010 by Tom Allen

Having solved the problems of world hunger, universal medical care, and corrupt politicians, it’s good to know that some people still have enough energy to tackle the really important issues of whether or not “enforced” chastity is an actuality, whether … Continue reading →

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Guess what I’m wearing?

Posted on April 7, 2008 by Tom Allen

Go ahead, guess. Oh hell, this should have been a no-brainer for 90% of the regular visitors here. Yes, I’m wearing a new CB-6000. I’ve been wearing it off and on – mainly on – since Friday morning. I’ve needed … Continue reading →

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