Tag Archives: chastity

Consent and sensibility

Posted on April 17, 2020 by Tom Allen

While the post itself is old, I’ve been referencing this a lot in the past year or so; I suspect it’s a factor of inexpensive devices allowing more men/couples to dabble with chastity. … Having solved the problems of world … Continue reading →

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Transformative Orgasm Denial

Posted on April 13, 2020 by Tom Allen

Even thought I’m still working, I seem to have a little more free time on my hands because of how slowly things in the manufacturing world are moving along. This has given me a chance to look over some of … Continue reading →

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The Chastity / Denial Matrix

Posted on December 4, 2019 by Tom Allen

Over the years, I keep getting sucked into discussions in which some person asks a question about “permanent” chastity, and the thread devolves into a mess in which most of the responses are about defining “permanent” and then arguing about … Continue reading →

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Indefinite Numbers

Posted on July 26, 2019 by Tom Allen

I can’t remember my last orgasm. There’s a certain irony to this — cruel or amusing, depending upon your mindset — because as most of us know, chastity is a game of numbers. Nobody presents this as well as Thumper, … Continue reading →

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Recouping the investment

Posted on May 3, 2019 by Tom Allen

I was one of the few people who didn’t freak over the Tumblr Panic of December 2018. I had the main one, The Edge of Vanilla (which I found amusing to turn into The Reds of Vanilla, in which every … Continue reading →

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Shrinkage: Chastity is the least of your concerns.

Posted on March 15, 2019 by Tom Allen

Good news for all of you men who are so concerned that wearing a chastity device will shrink your tonker: As it turns out, it’s going to shrink anyway, and a device is probably the least of your concerns: WILLY … Continue reading →

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The problems with chastity

Posted on November 8, 2018 by Tom Allen

Apropos of the article last week, What spending two weeks in a chastity device taught me about my sexuality and my marriage, here’s one that I only ran across this week. It’s an especially insightful article, aimed at women/partners of guys who … Continue reading →

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Eternal Loctober

Posted on October 5, 2018 by Tom Allen

So, Loctober is here, and the various forums and Tumblrs are abuzz with chatter about a no-orgasm month, and non-stop chastity for the next few weeks. It’s funny to see how the idea has grown in the last few years. … Continue reading →

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