Some of my most viewed posts are not fiction or the hot chastity porn; I have written about some experiences and situations that have occurred over the last several years, and people have found them interesting enough to come back come back to.
You can find most of my real life experiences at this link: True Tales.
I’m posting the links below to the handful of posts that seem to draw the most traffic.
Chastity & Orgasm Denial
- My own chastity story
An account of what led into one of our long-term orgasm denial experiences. This is by far the most read article on this blog. - Commentation on My own chastity story
A follow-up discussion on the idea of long-term orgasm denial. - Transformative Orgasm Denial
A little about how Mrs. Edge and I got into (male) chastity and orgasm denial. - Orgasmic release in a CB-3000
In which we learn that a chastity device doesn’t necessarily keep you from spurting all over the carpet. - Back in the saddle again
After an unanticipated break, we get back into chastity play. - A Week in a CB-6000: My Review
I finally upgraded to the CB-6000. It’s more evolutionary than revolutionary. - La cage au coq: The Birdlock review
I spend a couple of weeks in the new silicone Birdlock device. Some positive things, some not so much. - Cock Locking
Mrs. Edge and I have our own ideas about male chastity, and it’s probably not what you think. - Challenging or Punishing?
We spend a few minutes musing over things that push our buttons. - Chastity Devices – in real life
Despite what you read on the internet, you can’t just buy one and lock it on. - Real Life Male Chastity
There are the stories, and then there is the way that it really happens.
Yes, this is real life.
- How do I get my partner to ___?
Everybody asks this question. The short answer is that you have to ask nicely. - Dating Scene
So, what attracted me to Mrs. Edge back in the day? - Harnessed
In which you see that Mr. and Mrs. Edge have their periods in which they just aren’t communicating… just like everyone else. - I’m too young to be this old
The old-age fairy whacked me over the head when I wasn’t looking. - If you like Pina Coladas
Life does not always imitate art. A sad tale about an acquaintance of mine. - Two Experiments
Please don’t forget that when you ask your partner to lock you up, your partner needs some time to process this new dynamic.
Some of our recent adventures.
- Long(ing) Distance
Mrs. Edge is gone for a month on business. Naturally I’m locked up. Yes, I’m dealing with it just fine, thanks for asking. - Coming Together: 1 – Reunion
Mrs. Edge comes back from a month long business trip, and all I got was this T-shirt. Oh, and some denial sex. - Coming Together: 2 – The Morning After
More chastity sex, and we start talking about changing the nature of our relationship. - When Life Imitates (Bad) Art
In what could have been a scene from badly written chastity porn, I accidentally lock myself into my CB3000. Mrs. Edge appears to have no objection.
Piercing Screams
- This won’t hurt a b… Ouch!
One of my first blog posts: I get a frenum piercing. - It works!
We finally get to feel what it’s like to have sex with a steel bar in my penis. - Punctuating the equilibriums
In which I get a chance to show the youth that age is a state of mind. - Captive ring doesn’t mean what you think
After not being able to make the frenum barbell work with the chastity device, I switch to a captive segment ring. - Out with the old…
Grrr. After almost a year and a half of failing to make it compatible with the CB-3000, we give up on the frenum piercing.
When someone you love is kinky
Several articles describing how I finally brought out my desires and thoughts on kink to my wife, and some of the ways in which it affected our relationship.
- When someone you love is kinky – 1
- When someone you love is kinky – 2
- When someone you love is kinky – 3
- Self-Enclosure
It’s not easy being kinky, especially when you have such an oddball kink. - A Different Self-Enclosure
More on how difficult it is for me to discuss being kinky.
The Chastity Devices
You’re probably here because you are a chastity device geek. You want information on the devices before you spend your hard-earned money, and Consumer Reports doesn’t review sex toys.
The dedicated staff at Edge of Vanilla Laboratories is here to help you pick out a device, and to answer any questions you might have.
Reviews
- A Week in a CB-6000: My Review
I finally upgraded to the CB-6000. It’s more evolutionary than revolutionary. - La cage au coq: The Birdlock review
I spend a couple of weeks in the new silicone Birdlock device. Some positive things, some not so much.
Modifications & discussion
- CB6000: Modifying your chastity device
I learn a few things about the device, and decide to make it backward compatible with my CB3000 - In Case of Keymergency
Because you need to expect the unexpected. - Chastity Device Mods
What? You’re going to use an off the shelf model? How boring. - Modifying your security settings
You really can’t just slap that thing on and go. Trust me on this.
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Tom,
woudl you mind taking a look at my newly started blog. I have posted on femalelegrealationship.com, under lovemywife. I have a lot more stories I will post, but you seem to be an old hand at this, and I could use some advice.
Thanks.
LoveMyWife
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Are there any statistics on how many people or couples are participating in chastity at any level from bedroom game to lifestyle? Or stats on how many devices have been sold?
Thank you,
Eido
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Aug. 29,2011 Right now I am unemployed. My wife is working. She is understandably grumpy when she gets home. She gets home and bitches about the dishes in the sink, the laundry that is piling up and other stuff. She is right. I cannot find a decent job right now, I pretty much do not jack and I feel bad about it. OK I am not motivated by housework and do need direction in that area. […]
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Yeah, cool story, bro. Can you explain why you felt compelled to post it here and on several other web boards?
Never mind, it’s probably not that important. The upshot is that chastity devices are sex toys. You don’t need $200 worth of plastic hanging from your junk in order to be a better husband, you just need to get off your ass and pitch in.
Tom
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And you felt the need to say this why?
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For the same reason that you felt the need to leave a two page story in the comment section of my blog. You know, the same story that you post elsewhere.
It’s my blog so I can attention whore all I want. If anybody else is going to use my blog for their own attention whoring, then they’d better put on a good show.
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My apology, I just thought just some dude. I obviously posted in the wrong area. Once again, sorry.
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