Category Archives: Sexuality & Relationships

Temporarily Permanent


A few weeks ago on Tumblr or maybe Fetlife, I ran across the sentence “I’m in permanent chastity for the rest of the month.” Putting aside the source for the moment, the sentence was one of those syntactical jumbles that, … Continue reading

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Summer Penis Has Come and Gone. Gird Your Loins for Winter Penis


It’s closing on on winter here in New England, and that means cold weather. And with the cold weather, that means that those of us who wear devices have to deal with a new set of adjustments. The equipment that … Continue reading

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Tumblr will delete all porn from the platform | TechCrunch


I know the rumors come out every once in a while, but this time it seems to have been verified by Tumblr, itself. On December 17, Tumblr will be banning porn, errr “adult content,” from its site and encouraging users … Continue reading

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Bad sex award 2018: the contenders in quotes | Books | The Guardian


“Empty my tanks,” I’d begged breathlessly, as once more she began drawing me deep inside her pleasure cave. Her vaginal ratchet moved in concertina-like waves, slowly chugging my organ as a boa constrictor swallows its prey. Soon I was locked … Continue reading

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What spending two weeks in a chastity device taught me about my sexuality and my marriage


https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/sex-locktober-chastity-belt-bdsm-marriage-relationship-sexuality-penis-a8600906.html Apparently I hit the wrong button, and accidentally posted an article that I was saving for later. After I’d had a chance to, you know, actually read it. Anywho. since a few people have already commented, I’m going to … Continue reading

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Eternal Loctober


So, Loctober is here, and the various forums and Tumblrs are abuzz with chatter about a no-orgasm month, and non-stop chastity for the next few weeks. It’s funny to see how the idea has grown in the last few years. … Continue reading

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Men Get Sad After Sex. Now We Have a Concrete Answer Why


Here’s an interesting article from Medium’s Mel Magazine: Men Get Sad After Sex. Now We Have a Concrete Answer Why When I first saw the topic, I thought it would be about the reported tendency for men to feel depressed, … Continue reading

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Road Warrior


I know the topic comes up a lot, especially on chastity related forums, so here’s something of interest for those of you who enjoy bicycling. Cyclists go through saddles like crazy, trying to find one that has a decent fit and … Continue reading

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