Tag Archives: orgasm denial

Consent and sensibility

Posted on April 17, 2020 by Tom Allen

While the post itself is old, I’ve been referencing this a lot in the past year or so; I suspect it’s a factor of inexpensive devices allowing more men/couples to dabble with chastity. … Having solved the problems of world … Continue reading →

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Transformative Orgasm Denial

Posted on April 13, 2020 by Tom Allen

Even thought I’m still working, I seem to have a little more free time on my hands because of how slowly things in the manufacturing world are moving along. This has given me a chance to look over some of … Continue reading →

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The Chastity / Denial Matrix

Posted on December 4, 2019 by Tom Allen

Over the years, I keep getting sucked into discussions in which some person asks a question about “permanent” chastity, and the thread devolves into a mess in which most of the responses are about defining “permanent” and then arguing about … Continue reading →

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Indefinite Numbers

Posted on July 26, 2019 by Tom Allen

I can’t remember my last orgasm. There’s a certain irony to this — cruel or amusing, depending upon your mindset — because as most of us know, chastity is a game of numbers. Nobody presents this as well as Thumper, … Continue reading →

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Moms Before MILFs

Posted on May 11, 2019 by Tom Allen

I’m not much for watching videos, but I found this amusing: https://thenewgentleman.co.uk/2019/05/xhamster-milf-block-mothers-day/ In a Mother’s Day stunt called #MomsBeforeMILFs, porn site xHamster on Sunday will block off the videos in the adult video world’s most popular category—MILF clips—and instead show … Continue reading →

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Back to the Future

Posted on November 16, 2018 by Tom Allen

I’ve spent most of 2018 locked in a chastity device. My time out can literally be measured in hours: a few doctors visits and a few long distance bike rides were the only times when Mrs Edge had me remove … Continue reading →

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The problems with chastity

Posted on November 8, 2018 by Tom Allen

Apropos of the article last week, What spending two weeks in a chastity device taught me about my sexuality and my marriage, here’s one that I only ran across this week. It’s an especially insightful article, aimed at women/partners of guys who … Continue reading →

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What spending two weeks in a chastity device taught me about my sexuality and my marriage

Posted on October 27, 2018 by Tom Allen

https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/sex-locktober-chastity-belt-bdsm-marriage-relationship-sexuality-penis-a8600906.html Apparently I hit the wrong button, and accidentally posted an article that I was saving for later. After I’d had a chance to, you know, actually read it. Anywho. since a few people have already commented, I’m going to … Continue reading →

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