Category Archives: chastity

“Do you miss being able to make choices about your orgasms?”

Posted on March 20, 2020 by Tom Allen

This is from a twitter thread I recently had, and thought some people might find it useful or interesting or something. This thread is for @MidlifeKink as a result of a poll from @thumperMN . Because I’ve spent a long … Continue reading →

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The Chastity / Denial Matrix

Posted on December 4, 2019 by Tom Allen

Over the years, I keep getting sucked into discussions in which some person asks a question about “permanent” chastity, and the thread devolves into a mess in which most of the responses are about defining “permanent” and then arguing about … Continue reading →

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Indefinite Numbers

Posted on July 26, 2019 by Tom Allen

I can’t remember my last orgasm. There’s a certain irony to this — cruel or amusing, depending upon your mindset — because as most of us know, chastity is a game of numbers. Nobody presents this as well as Thumper, … Continue reading →

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Recouping the investment

Posted on May 3, 2019 by Tom Allen

I was one of the few people who didn’t freak over the Tumblr Panic of December 2018. I had the main one, The Edge of Vanilla (which I found amusing to turn into The Reds of Vanilla, in which every … Continue reading →

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Temporarily Permanent

Posted on March 21, 2019 by Tom Allen

A few weeks ago on Tumblr or maybe Fetlife, I ran across the sentence “I’m in permanent chastity for the rest of the month.” Putting aside the source for the moment, the sentence was one of those syntactical jumbles that, … Continue reading →

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Shrinkage: Chastity is the least of your concerns.

Posted on March 15, 2019 by Tom Allen

Good news for all of you men who are so concerned that wearing a chastity device will shrink your tonker: As it turns out, it’s going to shrink anyway, and a device is probably the least of your concerns: WILLY … Continue reading →

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Back to the Future

Posted on November 16, 2018 by Tom Allen

I’ve spent most of 2018 locked in a chastity device. My time out can literally be measured in hours: a few doctors visits and a few long distance bike rides were the only times when Mrs Edge had me remove … Continue reading →

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The problems with chastity

Posted on November 8, 2018 by Tom Allen

Apropos of the article last week, What spending two weeks in a chastity device taught me about my sexuality and my marriage, here’s one that I only ran across this week. It’s an especially insightful article, aimed at women/partners of guys who … Continue reading →

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